okay this is my first posting on here and i have been reading all the post and couldn't find anything so i figured i would post it. Okay first of all I'm 24 year old male, single, work full time and go to school full time. i have had 2 girlfriends my whole life and haven't had any luck since this was years ago. never had a girlfriend in high school nor even had a date for the prom just went by myself. i really don't have social life i go out once and a while to the bar and have a couple of drink and play trivia on the TV screen. I have been told that I'm a handsome man, but ,my problem is that I'm absolutely afraid of approaching women and talking with them. Plus i would rather stay at home and watch TV then go out. My friends said that they would help me but never did so i basically gave up on picking up girls. but I'm afraid that I'm going to end up alone and having no friends. so here's my questions?? 1 how do i go out and approach women and get to know them? 2 I also have a problem with looking at women i just look down at the floor or look away when a beautiful women walks past me? 3 How can i improve my chances of at least meeting new people instead of sitting around the house? 4 i have never asked a girl out on a date i have only been on one 1 date my whole life. The girlfriends that i have had i only dated a week or so i was in the 6 grade so it was kinda childish. so any input would be appreciated?