Need Some Advice On A Few Things...

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by DaAzn, Aug 29, 2010.

  1. DaAzn

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    Hey fellas. I just met this wonderful woman about 1.5 months ago. We've had the most wonderful time together, and things are going smooth.

    Anywho, her birthday is coming up this weekend, and while I've gotten her a present, I also wish to give her something really special sexually.

    It will be her 25th birthday, and hence I plan to give her 25 orgasms in one long night. One for every year. I proposed this to her, and while she welcomed the concept, she also thinks it's impossible for a woman to have 25 orgasms.

    I intend to do this primarily via oral sex, since she's one of the 75% of women who do not get orgasms through straight intercourse. The exception is of course when I rub her clit with my penis inside her.

    Please note that, while answering my questions, that she is also the woman whom I've given my virginity to. So I have fairly limited sexual experience.

    However, I am a fast learner, and we both do a sexual review about once a week discussing what both of us could do better to please the other. Thus far, I've only managed to give her 3 orgasms in one session (didn't take long. About 20 mins total). I'm shooting for 25 now.

    So, on to my questions:

    a) Is it even possible to give 25 orgasms to a woman in one night? What are the limits?

    b) How do you even go for that long? What kind of pacing techniques do you recommend?

    c) I'm highly experimental, so I'm willing to try new things. Any suggestions for more advanced techniques?
     
  2. cbrmale

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    It depends on the woman, of course, but most women I've been with get sensitive after a few orgasms, and then things get painful and unpleasant. I had a long-term relationship with a woman who couldn't have more than one per day, and quite a few others who's limit was five or six. So it's unlikely that 25 orgasms are possible, or at least desirable. I suggest you either try something else, or work out what to do when she says to stop because she's had enough.
     
  3. Mittimer

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    A) Yes, it is possible. You just have to worry about OVER stimulating her and it becoming painful..

    B) It wasn't all sex, it was toys, hands, tongues lol. A little big of everything.

    C)Try mutual masturbating to begin with. Or just help her get herself off, move to some oral, get her off a couple times that way, move to actual sex. Then move back and do the entire cycle over again. Try new areas of the house, new positions. If you live alone try areas like the bathroom sink, the kitchen counters, the edge of the bed, the kitchen table (If it's sturdy enough), THE SHOWER using water pressure if you have a removable hose thing. (They run like 15 dollars at your local store and are super easy to install). Make it more exciting by changing up places. Throw in some porn if that's your thing or even do a little role play. Have fun with it and don't turn it into a task.
     
  4. Hot Wheels

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    She sounds more realistic than you do......:eyes
    Rather than promise a marathon that you (or her) may not deliver.....:ugh
    Just take her for a nice dinner, a movie or show perhaps....then back to your hotel for a nice relaxing session of hot sex with no major expectations......
    You'll have a much more memorable time.... :D
     
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    In theory it is possible but most woemen could not take that many. Go for five good ones instead. There is always too much of a good thing!:eek
     
  6. Dragon_Fire

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    I have had about that number in one session before but I can orgasm from other parts of my body besides my pussy. If I had to try to handle 25 from my clit only, I'd probably end up crushing his head with my thighs to stop the stimulation. Maybe you could try giving her 5 orgasms on 5 consecutive nights to cum up with the 25.
     
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    Yikes, 25 in one night :eek! The most I've had is 6, and even at that my clit was about ready to run for the hills! I agree with HotWheels, you're far better off setting yourself a bit more of a realistic plan. If you put too much pressure on yourself to deliver the 25, you're going to end up feeling shit about it. She's also going to feel too much pressure because she'll know how much it means to you, and all of us girls know that pressure is the one thing that makes it damn near impossible to come :ugh!

    Quality over quantity! :) - I recommend oral with some champagne, or ice cubes, hhmmm :woohoo
     
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    25!!! I think your tongue might be a bit sore as well as her clit mate..... Think about the future too...if your still together with her when she is 40 will you be keeping the theme going? yikes?!?
     
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    25?! I hope she has orgasms upon command haha. Seriously though, I agree with Earl Grey if most of the stimulating will be done via tongue then id be concerned about the safety of your tongue. From my experience once you start crossing into multiple orgasms each orgasm thereafter becomes harder to accomplish then the last.

    I would definitely try to get the beginning orgasms accomplished through some less intense methods and then start moving to more advanced techniques. I would also suggest have an arsenal of toys at hand haha. While I do not think 25 orgasms is really obtainable, I doubt you would need to get to that point for you to give her the best night of her life on her birthday. I drafted up a brief article on some different techniques if you want to check it out. The site is the same as my member name. Hope everything works out for you!
     
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    even if you dont get to 25, beware of some phyical issues with wht youre doing. have water available, she'll get dehydrated and i reckon you will too. also, if she starts shaking horribly, let her rest for a while and give her some gatorade, your muscles work a ton when youre orgasming. and if she wants to stop, DONT PUSH HER. i once actually passed out because we tried to keep going and i was too physically exhausted. other than that, sure its physically possible but i tend to agree that it wont happen.
     
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    you're a trooper buddy! its an interesting gift :)
    It is possible, but not probable. Sorry mate :( women do have the glorious ability to stay at the height of climax longer than men. Sadly, this can really stress a girl out. I've heard stories of women passing out unconcious from too many too quickly.
    Just don't be discouraged if it doesn't pan out. I'm sure your gal will love the effort in more ways than you realize ;)
    Good luck pal!
     
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    Give this thread a read: How to eat Pussy! by Bella. Might help you a bit both with the orgasms and the experience.
     
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    Yikes, man! I hope your relationship with her is permanent, because otherwise, you're sure setting the bar WAY HIGH for the next guy! :eek
     
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    25 Os in 24 hours; a noble aspiration, not impossible but realistically a bridge too far away.