So here's the deal. My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me 6 months ago. We also have 3 kids including a 7 week old. He is living with his brother and just recently decided to work on things again and try to fix out relationship. Here's the problem our relationship before was lacking sex and that was a BIG problem. He wanted to do all these things, but I was just shy and scared to do it. Now that we are working on things if I dont bring that spice that he's looking for Im afraid it will just go down hill again. Im a very shy person and I need ideas of things to do in bed or even with oral sex. What little things could I start to do to get things going in the bedroom? Any advice would help. I need any tips or things to do that you may think would help. Also my boyfriend is a little heavier set so Its not as easy to do everything. Please help me!