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Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by shyfly, Jan 8, 2007.

  1. shyfly

    shyfly New Member

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    My husband is very set on how he likes sex and when, etc. The only way I could find to try anal was to grab him during sex and put in my ass myself. I want sex more and in a lot of different ways. How can I get him to open up to the fun??
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    I assume you've tried the obvious - - talking about it?

    Have you two ever watched porn together? If either of you has an aversion to bonafide "porn", perhaps watching an extremely sexy R-rated movie together could ignite some deviant-behavior within! Perhaps he just doesn't have a clue as to what's available, aside from the usual one or two positions.
     
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    melicious The Old Maid
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    Applauds. Absolutely. We really began exploring with magazines (we're old, internet porn wasn't so available). Another thought is a beautifully illustrated book of positions on the bedside table. Yum.
     
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    Openly share your sexual fantasies with him, ask him about his..that you love him and want to realize them together.