need help quick !

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  1. andy10101

    andy10101 New Member

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    youve probably all heard this before, only signed up because i need a quick answer
    ive had sex with my gf, she has no birth control and stupidly me i didnt use a condom, ya i know it was stupid and so on just dont bother giveing me a hard time over it cause i know what happens

    anyway i came inside ( lets just say she wouldnt get off me when i said i was about to cum normaly she does straight away so i came and i quickly threw her off and saw it in there)
    i took abit out but i know that wont help much, i made her cum about 3 hours later cause we started abit of foreplay nothing else,

    its her 5th day , she had her period last friday and its now 5 days after her period

    can she become pregnant? i know theres somewhat a possability... but can someone tell me how high is the percentage of her actually been preg? and how long can sperm last in side her cause i think the actually fertility average day is like the 14th day into the misterael cycle

    any help ?
     
  2. sinner

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    I think you'll have to wait it out. I will tell you though that my wife and I spent many years having unprotected sex in the days after her period without getting pregnat. We used a condom the rest of the month but went without a raincoat for a few days. Sort of lke russian roulette. You may be ok but you will jave wait and see. I don't want get your hopes up.
     
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    thx man, i know i honestly dont use condoms, only used them twice because most girls ive been with had the pill, but my lastest gf (going for a year now) weve never used a condom and she hada scare once because she thought she was preg turns out she was just late by 6 days which was unusual for her but natural i suppose,

    anyone else have any ideas on this ?
    5 days after her period so its kinda like an iffy really :S but any experts haha ?
     
  4. Mittimer

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    First I have to ask how old you are.
    Judging by your first post you seem kind of young. No offense.

    Second, a girl can get pregnant any time, though it's easier for her to get pregnant when she's ovulating. A woman generally ovulates at 12 to 16 days after the first day of her period. A lot of younger folks believe that you can only get pregnant during the ovulation dates, but this is false. You can get pregnant at any time.

    I wont lecture you but I suggest you use some form of contraceptive so you don't have to deal with this stress next time.

    Assuming that you're both 18 years old, go to a clinic together, most planned parenting clinics give women birth control for $20 a month, or cheaper. Sometimes even free if they are on limited/no income.

    If you were worried after it happened, there is a Plan B pill, which is just an emergency contraceptive. It's pricey and not something to reply on all the time. It does a major number on your body.

    Just keep an eye on it, if she's late for her period next month, take a pregnancy test. Or, if she's gotten pregnant I'm sure she'll start feeling the effects before her next period.

    Last but not least, you little men can survive inside your lady friend anywhere between 2 and 7 days. Depending on the acidity of her vagina at the time.

    Just keep an eye out and take whatever get's thrown your way.

    My motto: If you think you're mature enough to have sex, you're mature enough to handle bringing another life into the world.

    I know not everyone thinks that way but hey, to each their own.
     
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    in many areas you can obtain free birth control at 16 (maybe younger) without parental knowledge, depending on your state
     
  6. Mittimer

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    But remember JDG, we're all 18 here.
     
  7. FlirtyChick

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    A woman can technically become pregnant at any time of the month, so your girlfriend is being careless! If this happens again, please take her straight to a pharmacy the next morning, or as soon as possible, for the morning after pill, which you can get without a prescription.

    Honestly, your woman should be on birth control. I recommend the pill if she can take it, otherwise there are options. If money is an issue your local health department will gladly help you out.
     
  8. Dragon_Fire

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    If you're talking 5 days from the start of her period, the chances of conception are relatively slim, though still possible. If you're talking 5 days from the end of her period you're getting into her fertile zone.
     
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    why come on a sexual forum and ask this question just ring the NHS helpline 0845 46 47 they will help :)
     
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    Ugh...I'm not even touching the topic of pregnancy with this one. IMHO people need to worry about STD's & getting someone preggos - that way hopefully they use their brain first and then their genitals. I think sitting around for a few days brewing on if your dick is going to start glowing, or if her water will break 9 months from now is a good lesson to learn. And as far as not needing a reprimand...evidently allllll the warnings you received up to now have done absolutely no good.

    BTW Mittimer...wow@ the length of time a swimmer can stay in the love canal. I knew it was quite a while, but not that long. Thank gods I spend the 50 cents and 5 seconds using condoms with my partners so I don't have to worry about it.
     
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    Random by note.....girl sperm survive longer then male.male sperm are fast but die young, girl sperm are a little slower, but more resilient
     
  12. Dragon_Fire

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    Sounds like the difference between males and females in general. :phat
     
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    I read somewhere that sperm can live inside the vagina for 5 days so have her take a pregnancy test 2 weeks from the day of unprotected sex & again in 5 more days & then if your still worried test again in a week. She may be trying to get pregnant (only because you said she usually jumps off when you are about to cum) & if you dont want that you need 2 be more carefull. I have also read that if you both cum at the same time the chances of pregnancy increases because the spasms move the sperm up the cervix.