[Ask a Girl] Need help on first time

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  1. RaulCaruso

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    I've had a few best friends which have gone the extra step with me but every one of them after a month or two want to have "that" fun and when the moment comes the relationship ends. It seems like all the girls I've been with go away because of my dick. I know there's nothing bad with it, no deformations or anything bad. My longest relationship was 3 months long and with my actual girlfriend were a week from our anniversary and she promised me our first time that night after a dinner and a movie. She's a virgin and I'm a virgin and I'm afraid she'll freak off that night and she's the only girl I've really fallen in love with. What can I do so she doesn't go away?
     
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    Treat her with kindness, tenderness, patience and sensitivity.
    Make it a memorable experience for both and above all do not force or rush.
    It is not about you taking your desires from her but sharing a special moment of change.
    Be aware that it may not all go to plan and be prepared that it might not be a successful penetration on the first occasion.
     
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    And what if she doesn't even want a penetration in the first place?

    In case it helps, I know that my size is over average but in case it's helpful my measures are 9.2 inches long and 7 inches in girth.
     
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    Dude if true that is elephant size and you got a future in the porno industry :lol
    You gonna have to find a lady with an already well stretched pussy for your first fuck but for heavens sake don't touch a virgin with that bazooka :eek
     
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    im sorry but thats too big xD
    7 inch girth????? i duno if i'd want to lose my virginity to that. i took 5.5 and that was plenty for me, hurt a bit, was over in less than a minute lmao. if youre telling the truth you should definitely build up to that...i dont think anybodys first time is that great, just be careful and caring, bring lube, dont do anything rash
     
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    I remeasured my penis and the girth is 6.8 inches. I was thinking in telling her about it instead of waiting until anniversary and maybe plenty of foreplay may arouse her enough for a little more space in her vagina.
     
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    Not enough space to comfortably take you all in. You are entirely too large for some ladies slow, be patient and be respectful if she tells you to stop. She is going to be in a substantial amount of pain her first time around if you are really as big as you say you are.

    Use your fingers gently at first to try and help her get used to being stretched. Also, if she doesn't want you to penetrate her at all, respect that. Give it time.
     
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    I told her this evening about my dick's size and some other stuff... and it was a little hard for her to digest it, but she said that in any case she loves me and she will stay with me. Definitely a lot of foreplay and use of fingers. What helps is that she has a big mouth which helps for a BJ. We acknowledged that if it's too painful we'll give it some time and more practice. Thanks for the replies.