Need help finding her clit

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  1. unigod12

    unigod12 New Member

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    So im kinda embarrassed that that I couldn't do this on my own, but i cant seem to find my gf's clit when im fingering her :(

    I know the general area where it is located, but i just cant seem to find it. Any advice on how to do this?
     
  2. polarbear79

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    it's that little button that gets hard when she's aroused, right between her upper vulva.. better yet, have her show you where it is ;)
     
  3. HardRocker

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    That's the best idea.

    Some girls are really small and all you'll feel is the raised bump which is the hood covering it. The actual clit may not come out to play until she's very aroused, if ever. If you apply some gentle pressure to it and wiggle it a little you can tell when you find it by watching her reaction.

    A really really good way is to explore with your tongue; again, gently, don't dive in like a boring machine.

    Ask her.
     
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    Usually the general area is good enough. Hitting the clit directly is not always so necessary. Go to "youporn" website and type in "female masturbation". You can tell some of it is totally real, and you can get some good ideas.
     
  5. fantasien

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    Um... You know, I can't seem to find it either!!:D
     
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    Well, first you have to find her:phat then she will direct you.:female
     
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    Haha! Your great!
     
  8. Steeleheart

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    Take your thumb and place it on her slit at the very top, press down slightly and push upwards gently towards her bellybutton, not very far of course, at the same time using your other hand to spread her lips. Have good lighting and it should reveal the beautiful button in all its glory...:D
     
  9. illcuminu

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    Tell her to move your hand to where it feels good for her.
     
  10. HardRocker

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    So, where did you go, unigod, did you find it?
     
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    (Mrs) Generally i think the best idea in your case could be to do what other people are suggesting ask her to show you where it is, it shouldnt be that hard to find if im honest, but then again it varies in size.
    But if you've found a girls clit before, it shouldnt be very hard to find hers ;)
     
  12. HardRocker

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    I wish he'd us know how it went