My wife walked out on me saying that she no longer has feelings for me. She seems to be going thru a mid life crisis. Suddenly she is going out until two or three in the morning, getting tattoos and piercings, and hanging out with people ten to fifteen years younger. The worst part of it is that I have been trying to get her to do all these things with me. I have never done anything horrible to her in 17 years of marriage except had a small drug problem in our third year of marriage and a porn addiction in our twelth year. She says I hurt her feelings when I asked her to try to be attractive for me. She always refused and made it a point to make herself less attractive. she says she has been struggling for about four years, and I think she is lying to cover her own guilt. I only noticed the problem when she started a new job. She has a problem with comfrontation and I am a very passionate person. she never once came to me and said I have a problem. Any advice, or similar stories.