Ok I need advice people.... the wife and I decided to try a 3some. We found a guy and we chatted with him for about a week. We decided to meet him a hotel where he worked. The wife was extremely nervous and we did talk about her having a 1 on 1 with him to help her get over her nervousness and insecurities. We had set rules so nobody got hurt and things went smoothly. Anyway we get to the hotel and he sent her a message I didn't agree with so I told her no this wasn't happening today. However, I went to the restroom and come out and they were entering a room together. They had a quickie and came out about 5 minutes later. Needless to say I was a little pissed. Lol. So I get over that and we talk about doing it again the right way this time. She want to do it one time and then she don't want to. She changes her mind 5 times a day and it's driving me nuts. What's really bugging me is why she don't want to do it again? She said it was quick but good and was very curious about a lot of things. I also have a lot of unanswered questions because she says she don't remember very much cuz she was so nervous. But the deal was she gets her 1 on 1 and I get to watch and maybe join. So why don't she want to do it again?