Okay, this is a serious topic to me. I have been in interactions with a wonderful female for the past 6 months. Everything is perfect. But our relationship is growing more sensual by the day.. there aint nothing wrong with that, as this is what I want as well. We have not had sex yet but it is getting to that point. I love her, but I am insecure about something... okay... I have a birthmark on my penis. It's something like one at least, there is no pigment (color) in these birthmarks. It's not all over my penis or anything, but it makes me insecure and hesitant... due to the fact that I am of a dark complexion, so there is a obviously great contrast in color from the birth markings and my normal skin tone. I could get my pigment back in these areas if I visited my dermatologist for treatments or something, but I do not know if I want to do this. Sometimes I feel if she really loves me, then it would not matter anyways, so why spend on money and time on this and just get on with it. But at the same time, I think, how will se react when she sees it... :cry but it may not be as bad as I think it is. This could be all in my head... so I am conflicted... I really need a females opinion, one that is objective. I need to know if it looks that bad. This is not some pick post where I try to manipulate people into seeing my penis for other motives. I am in a relationship and this has really been a concern for me. So, any advice would be helpful and a females opinion on the look of it, would help much.