Okay..., it's only been 3 months since I lost the V-card. Since then, I've done loads of experimentation, and loads of cumming everywhere. I have come to notice a pattern to my orgasm. I cannot and will not cum unless I am doing the work! So that means no happy endings to blowjobs, and no happy endings to when she's on top. She could ride/suck me furiously for an hour, and I'll never even come close... I don't understand this. Can someone explain this pattern to me? I'd like to have an orgasm without having to do all the work for once!