Need Advice On My Orgasm...

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  1. DaAzn

    DaAzn New Member

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    Okay..., it's only been 3 months since I lost the V-card. Since then, I've done loads of experimentation, and loads of cumming everywhere.

    I have come to notice a pattern to my orgasm. I cannot and will not cum unless I am doing the work!

    So that means no happy endings to blowjobs, and no happy endings to when she's on top. She could ride/suck me furiously for an hour, and I'll never even come close...

    I don't understand this. Can someone explain this pattern to me? I'd like to have an orgasm without having to do all the work for once!
     
  2. Alwayslearningsex

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    Just one theory crosses my mind: Did you masturbate A LOT before?
    Did you pump it hard and fast? On the other hand you could use it to your advantage ..... and HERS especially. Maybe in time something will change.
     
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    Teach her the strokes and rhythms and angles and so on that work for you. There's more to sex than riding and sucking furiously. You might have to do some work for a little while longer to help her refine her technique, but think of it as an investment.
     
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    You have a control issue. It's mental. What you have to do is:

    #1....STOP spanking the monkey. That desensitizes your junk.
    #2 .....After you've abstained from masturbation, you have to concentrate really hard on what she's doing and what your feeling. Keep up the concentration long enough and you'll cum. Do this little "exercise" enough, and you can lose the self-control issue.
     
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    No, and no. If I was busy and stuff, I didn't masturbate, because it takes time. If I was really bored and free, I usually do. I am quite gentle with my junk.

    What did you mean by using it to my advantage?

    Ah, yes I do. Although, I cum whenever I'm on top or doing the humping.

    Well, when I said "furiously", I was really meaning it in a joking kind of way.

    I frankly don't know what "strokes" and "rhythms" work for me... What do you mean by those terms?

    I'll try this. See where it takes me.