I have a boyfriend who is much more experienced and he makes some jokes :lol about me being a "starfish" and he never ejaculates when I give him oral sex. The problems I am having that I need help on: Woman on Top: I have no idea what to do when he asks me to be on top. But I feel I am not pulling my weight if I dont try. Right now I just sit on top of him then lean down and sort of move up and down but I dont have alot of speed or control and he usually has to take over. How can I get better in this position? Just any advice, and to make me be able to be on top longer without getting tired, and so its more pleasurable for him. Giving Oral Sex: He hasn't come yet and I gave him head for a whole movie. He saids I am good at it but then he cant come?? What are some techniques to get him to go over the edge?? He saids he just wants to have me lie with my head over the edge of the bed and then for him to just have sex with my mouth, is this very uncomfortable should I just do it this way?? When He's On Top: He did call me a starfish. So that means I just lie there. I really enjoy the sex he's amazing I make alot of noise and scratch his back but what else can I do when he is on top or doggy style so it seems like I am more involved and doing more?? Thanks guys any tips will help me alot.