I'm a virgin but I'm only one because I worried about people labelling me a slag... because I do get a lot of attention from men but reject them. I have a very high which is driving me mad. If I could, I'd have sex every guy that showed interest (all ages and body types etc) or at least blow them. I'm worried that if I did, people I know would find out about me sleeping around and I'll get a reputation - this terrifies me because I'm a very private, dignified person and if I'm flirtatious I do it subtly... But I really do crave being in a long term relationship with someone who loves and cares about me and who isn't going to run straight after having sex. It's unlikely I'll be in a relationship anytime soon but I need sex.... badly. The main problem with me having casual sex is because I'd lose my virginity to someone I don't know...but does it matter?? So... if like me you have a high sex drive and have slept with many people, how has that affected your reputation? Did people start labelling you & spreading rumours? If so how did it affect you? How highly do you value the 'first time'? And if you were me would you just wait forever for the right person and maturbate yourself into a coma in the mean time?? lol I don't know how much longing I can take without sex....and just need some advice. Thanks!