another new issue I am facing with this younger man.. he is 10 years younger.. He is incredible and has made me want to be explorative, creative. I was married for 14 years, and have very little 'experience' and am just now learning and experiencing many things about sex.. my marriage was apparently very "norm" in that sex was sex, not always missionary, but certainly without toys, dirty talk, etc. So during sex this guy asks me to get real nasty.. talk dirty.. "get real nasty" he says.. like when I am giving him a blowjob.. or he'll ask me to touch myself and "be dirty.. " hate to admit it but I need some ideas... I'm trying to be creative but as someone who hasn't watched porn and hasn't had many partners, I am a little fresh under the collar on this stuff but I want to learn and to please him.. also, I get the feeling he wants me to touch him around/in his anus. I do rub his balls, and the area between... I get positive moans and such... ) Any suggestions on how to do this (maybe placing my finger in his butt for the first time?