Name one thing you learned from your lover(s)...

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  1. MariaMaria

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    Hi!
    Since every time we meet someone new, we get to experience sex differently; how about we celebrate the things we learned from others? (My suggestion is to write about one person at a time & keep it short :) ) I'll start:
    Mr. S taught me the beauty of taking things very slow.
     
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    D and I have both taught each other that:
    Put two people together that have been "sexually repressed" and you get a couple of closet freaks. ;)
     
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    I guess this counts. Miss T taught what it was like to be with a woman that knew what she wanted and whispered little directions.
     
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    My first wife taught me how you could almost die from being so lonely while with someone. And while you watched your youth, health, and sexual abilities deminish a little at a time day by day how little someone you loved could care. And my wife now taught me how to make love to a woman without using my penis. All the other women taught me that when they say looks don't matter to them that they just wanted a man to treat them right were not being truthful. Or maybe I didn't know how to treat a woman right. Or a little of both.
     
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    Wonderful! Being able to express what you want is very important for both partners.

    Oh, my, it sounds like you've had all types of experiences. Maybe the bad ones were just preparing you to better enjoy what you have now :)

    Mr. B taught me that playing rough can be pleasurable too...and I can have vaginal orgasms! yay!
     
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    Mrs. K taught me that jealousy is a killer and that being open and honest about what you are feeling sexually no matter how weird other people may find it is liberating
     
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    That I don't like being done sexual favors. If the fellatio I'm getting is simply pre reciprocation, or a supposed "duty" or basically anything beyond the thought of my penis in your mouth causing you to salivate uncontrollably, don't do it.
     
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    Miss A taught me you are never too old for a young woman. A
    She also taught me that slow is not always the best ;)
     
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    I agree!
     
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    Anal sex is amazing!!!!
     
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    As a young boy I was probably the greatest nuisance parents could suffer to have as their child. As a teenager I was supremely selfish and bordering on narcissistic. I was extremely full of myself, self-absorbed and inconsiderate.

    If the women I was with over the years have taught me one thing, it's the value of humility. Little by little these beautiful creatures have rounded off my character flaws, of which there were many. Of course these flaws of mine were difficult to live with and were the reason for more than one relationship being doomed from the outset, but I was an incrementally better person from relationship to relationship. There is no greater compliment I can make my former partners than to say "You made me a better man."
     
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    Forgot to mention that Mrs Robinson made me a Graduate. :p:p:p
    (Sorry, predictable reference joke, but I couldn't resist.)
     
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    Many things! When with my ex-wife and partners when younger, I was not very knowledgeable. So I learned so much :)

    Treat your partner like she matters, give her lots without expectations, and she will want to give back.
    There ARE women who get very aroused from giving a blowjob especially when I cum from it.
    Vaginal contractions exist and I love it.
    Multi orgasmic exists
    Squirting exists
    I discovered how to please a pussy in so many ways
    Slow sex can be AMAZING!
    Women can be as sexual as a guy and I truly enjoyed that part :)
     
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    Addendum: women can be much more sexual than a man!
     
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    Mr. A showed me what great pussy eating feels like
     
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    I've learned that some women can get me to try kinkier things than I ever thought I would do, and enjoy things I never thought I would.
     
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    I learned that it isn't a good idea to have 2 dates at the same time when neither of them knows that you are picking them both up at the same time.

    I got some bad looks while they were trying to decide who got to sit in the middle.
     
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    Physical pleasure is MUCH better with psychological and emotional commitment, but it is still awesome without those things.
     
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    My first taught me everything,I was 19,He was 45!
     
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