Naked in public

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  1. MrSnuggles

    MrSnuggles New Member

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    I am not someone who feels comfortable being naked around strangers. I've never been the guy walking around the locker room with no towel on, and even at the beach I wear a shirt.

    The odd thing is, I have an enduring fantasy of being naked. I think my current insecurities is because of my surroundings. What if I were in a place that allowed nudity?

    I want to visit a nude resort badly. The thought of multiple people seeing me naked is a huge turn-on. But I don't know, if given the opportunity, that I could even do it!

    Even more, I want to be watched while I have sex with my girlfriend. I've even secretly researched local swinger clubs to fulfill this desire. The problem is that my girlfriend is very insecure with her body weight and is not keen on the idea of letting people see her nude.

    Now I'm no model myself, and have my own insecurities (my dick is, less than average), but part of me just screams "fuck it" and doesn't care what other people think. I wish she felt the same way, but as it stands I think my fantasy may just remain a fantasy.

    Any suggestions?
     
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    You shouldn't try to coerce a partner into a sexual space they don't want to occupy. Public nudity and having sex in public is extreme for the majority, and I understand your girlfriend's reluctance to participate in this, especially with a negative body image. So the only suggestion I offer is to leave your fantasy as a fantasy, for your girlfriend's and your relatationship's sake.

    In terms of your insecurity; many men feel they are less than average in size when they are not. Often men use porn as a guide, but actors in these films are larger than average. Average penis length is about 5.5" and average girth is about 4.75", while porn actors would be typically around 6.5" in length, and about 5.5" in girth (they look bigger than this, but my observation is they are not).
     
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    I agree with cbrmale, that's definitely the kind of thing you want to leave alone haha..
    I'm the kind of guy that would wear his shirt at the beach as well, and sure, I've imagined having sex in front of others before, but never thought about actually trying it :p
     
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    As long as your comfortable, go for it!
     
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    I have that fetish/fantasy and I even used to ACT upon it! While never a member of a nudist colony, I have visited certain out-of-town neighborhoods late at night and walked around under the streetlights totally nude...in full view, right in the middle of the road! And I'd walk at a nice relaxed pace so that any onlookers would get a good look. What a rush! I even tried to get my wife into this but she is scared of getting arrested--rightly so--and she also is self conscious about her body.

    But let me tell you! If it weren't illegal, I would still do it on a daily basis! I too have this real fantasy for multiple women seeing me naked.
     
  6. footelong

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    If it's something you want to do, then go check out being nude in public on your own and see how you feel. If it's still something that you like and get a kick out of then slowly try to open your girl up to it from there. Go for it and good luck.
     
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    In Austria and Switzerland the wellness centres are full of naked people and it all seems perfectly normal. If anything you feel more exposed if you cover up. Me and my other half always enjoy the experience.
     
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    I would be pretty comfortable in a nudist beach/resort where nudity was permitted.. However, Outside of that I think Ill keep my clothing on.. Except maybe for a late night skinny dip in a lake?