I am not someone who feels comfortable being naked around strangers. I've never been the guy walking around the locker room with no towel on, and even at the beach I wear a shirt. The odd thing is, I have an enduring fantasy of being naked. I think my current insecurities is because of my surroundings. What if I were in a place that allowed nudity? I want to visit a nude resort badly. The thought of multiple people seeing me naked is a huge turn-on. But I don't know, if given the opportunity, that I could even do it! Even more, I want to be watched while I have sex with my girlfriend. I've even secretly researched local swinger clubs to fulfill this desire. The problem is that my girlfriend is very insecure with her body weight and is not keen on the idea of letting people see her nude. Now I'm no model myself, and have my own insecurities (my dick is, less than average), but part of me just screams "fuck it" and doesn't care what other people think. I wish she felt the same way, but as it stands I think my fantasy may just remain a fantasy. Any suggestions?