Hi, I've got a question for the ladies. Having been married going on 38 years one would expect to be pretty familiar with their wifes response. So ordinarily my wifes sexual response can be described as "building", as in getting stronger until orgasm. Recently she had a hormone test and it was decided that even though she was doing natural progesterone therapy her progesterone was low. Also her morning reading on her cortisol was low. So she now takes more progesterone and takes several herbs to strenghten the adrenals. This is the only thing I know of that has changed. She ordinarily would come after about 20 minutes of oral or digital stimulation. Now it's all different. She builds up, gets to the place where orgasm seems very evident, then it subsides some. Then again and again and again it builds up but no orgasm. Finally after about an hour and 40 minutes of digital then oral, then after my jaw feels like it will fall off, tried finger stimulation again she came. So as a man, I'm trying to figure out if this is heaven or hell. I mean she had a good time the last three times we got it on as this is when this started happening. But I was pretty tired out and some confused because we know each other real well after all these years. Do I just up my level of vitamins and try to keep up? Maybe I'll take a break from her and get some for myself in the middle of it all. I've developed the habit over the years of coming second because quite frankly after I come I don't have the interest level to pursue or the energy level to perform as I do before I come. But let's face it, I'm going on 59. My erection get's a little tired after waiting for it's turn for that long. Don't get me wrong I'm writing in broad strokes so it's not like we have a routine that we strictly stick to. I was coming in for a while at different times to. But I do like coming second as then everybody ends up satisfied. I hope this is not too graphic! O.H.