First of all, hello everyone! This is my first post. My wife and I have been together for 8 1/2 years, and we've been very imaginative and open minded in bed. About two years into our marriage when we were having problems, she revealed to me that she hadn't had an orgasm with me, or ever with anyone else. It was devastating until we recovered from our problems and then found out later that many women hadn't either. Eventually we did develop a few techniques that allowed her to have very small external orgasms and she seemed content with that. Well... fast forward to this Christmas. For fun every year I get her a naughty stocking that stays in our bedroom until Christmas. I buy toys and fun things for us and put them in there. THIS year I bought a different type of plug-in vibrator. I'm not sure about the rules here for posting brand names and all that, so I'll hold that back until I know if it's ok to say..... Anyway... I bought a G-spot attachment on it, because for YEARS I'd been periodically trying to get her to find her G-spot but I'm not sure she had much interest because she didn't know what she was supposed to be feeling. This time around this plug in vibrator gave enough vibrations that it apparently made it easy for her to find her spot. I told her what the books said -- that it might first feel like she had to pee, but to relax and wait through it.... Well... there is NO MISTAKING that she had a G-spot. It's like a jolt of lightening when she hits it with the vibe, and she goes into waves until her body is shaking. We have had more frequent sex in the last 3 weeks than we ever have. Now my question for those of you that have experienced this g-spot thing. The ultimate turn on to me would be her to ejaculate. Is there a trick to this within g-spots, or is it hit or miss if the woman will be able to do it? Is it rare? Would it have already happened if it ever was going to, or might it suprise us one day when she's having one and then she ejaculates? I can't find any reliable information out there, so I found this site in the hopes that it would help. Thanks! And glad to be here!