My wife's first G-spot orgasm

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by msduncan, Jan 20, 2007.

  1. msduncan

    msduncan New Member

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    First of all, hello everyone! This is my first post.

    My wife and I have been together for 8 1/2 years, and we've been very imaginative and open minded in bed. About two years into our marriage when we were having problems, she revealed to me that she hadn't had an orgasm with me, or ever with anyone else. It was devastating until we recovered from our problems and then found out later that many women hadn't either.

    Eventually we did develop a few techniques that allowed her to have very small external orgasms and she seemed content with that.

    Well... fast forward to this Christmas. For fun every year I get her a naughty stocking that stays in our bedroom until Christmas. I buy toys and fun things for us and put them in there. THIS year I bought a different type of plug-in vibrator. I'm not sure about the rules here for posting brand names and all that, so I'll hold that back until I know if it's ok to say.....

    Anyway... I bought a G-spot attachment on it, because for YEARS I'd been periodically trying to get her to find her G-spot but I'm not sure she had much interest because she didn't know what she was supposed to be feeling. This time around this plug in vibrator gave enough vibrations that it apparently made it easy for her to find her spot. I told her what the books said -- that it might first feel like she had to pee, but to relax and wait through it....

    Well... there is NO MISTAKING that she had a G-spot. It's like a jolt of lightening when she hits it with the vibe, and she goes into waves until her body is shaking. We have had more frequent sex in the last 3 weeks than we ever have.

    Now my question for those of you that have experienced this g-spot thing. The ultimate turn on to me would be her to ejaculate. Is there a trick to this within g-spots, or is it hit or miss if the woman will be able to do it? Is it rare? Would it have already happened if it ever was going to, or might it suprise us one day when she's having one and then she ejaculates? I can't find any reliable information out there, so I found this site in the hopes that it would help.

    Thanks! And glad to be here!
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    Welcome! I for one would like to know what the type of vibe it was.

  3. heelfetish

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    :welcome

    To answer your question, from what I have read, female ejaculation like you see in some porn is quite rare. It is believed that a lot of porn female ejaculations are faked.

    However, they do exist, and you will never know if she's capable unless you try. Keep going at it, if it happens it happens. If not, you had fun trying, right?
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    It was a Hitachi Magic Wand. I've never seen anything like what this thing does to her. She can orgasm 10 times and then after I think we're done, she says she wants me to have sex with her some more. I mean it supercharges her and gets her wound up.
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    I'm going to have to pick up one of those Magic Wands for my wife, they seem to get glowing review from many members here. :) Bzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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    Congratulations, msduncan! You faced a serious problem, overcame it together, and now things are better than you could have imagined! Cheers, Cheers!!

    As far as ejaculating, some women will have g-spot O's and not ejaculate... some will have a 'dribble/oozing' sort of fluid release, and some will squirt. I have the middle one, when it happens.

    the most important thing is that you have managed to find an erogenous area that eludes some for life! It is an incredible feeling - you phrased it well - lightning jolts and uncontrollable shaking. Helping a woman find this part of her sensual being is a great feat, indeed.

    *Making mental note...Hitachi Magic Wand.... :) *
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    I can only repeat what Rose posted, I have stimulated many women to g-spot orgasms, only one has squirted, one consistently oozed a lot of fluid and all the others just have big orgasms with no fluid at all.

    You have done well and I am sure your partner enjoyed it.
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    I have learned it my experiences that the longer you prolong the orgasm while massaging the G-Spot she will cumm harder when she finally cumms. Massage her G-Spot slow at first to prolong the orgasm and when she is close to having the orgasm is when you need to speed the massaging up. Tell her she needs to push the cumm out of her pussy with the same muscles she uses to urinate with or push out like she is trying to push a dick out of her pussy. Both works but pushing out with the same muscles she uses to urinate will make it squirt farther.

    Good luck
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    oh what a relief. i'm not the only one having troubles with that. i've been with my gf for 3 years now and i've never managed to give her a vaginal (g-spot) orgasm.

    for one, we both don't know where here g-spot is supposedly located. after a while of searching it becomes quite a turn off, especially for her. she says my fingers are too rough. i think she simply isn't wet enough any more, after a while. she's persistently telling me, that she's quite fond of our sex life, but i'm constantly doubting myself, because i've never ever gave a woman a vaginal orgasm. not that i've been with too many.

    it still eludes my imagination, how make it happen. i'll possibly ask her, if she wants to try that magic wand. :)

    i'm also not sure, if i should just stop trying, as it seems i'm doing it more for me as i do it for her, but i really want give her that kind of pleasure.
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    Well, right after reading that fine review of the HMW, I ordered one online. It came today, and as soon as booted the mail man out the door and slammed it shut, I ran upstairs to try it out. I washed it off and popped on the head, (I got the gee-whiz attachment, a funky, Austin Powers-esque sort of looking thing) plugged it in, greased it up, and I was off to the races. I must say it was stronger and louder than I expected, but MAN OH MAN, what a feeling! I came HARD in about 30 seconds.

    I LOVE it and can't wait for hubby to get home to show it to him. Thank you SO much msduncan for your post and for giving me the idea of ordering the Wand. If I didn't have IE, I'd insert about a dozen bowing emoticons right here.
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    Yep. The thing was very strong compared to the battery powered vibes I have used in the past. I am no expert on toys, in fact, I got my first ones less than a year ago, but I would say this thing is the best one I have cum across. (wink)

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    ... rushing out to buy stock in HMW.:lol
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    Yep, 30 seconds. I am sure it will take longer once the novelty has worn off a bit, but the thing was very strong compared to the battery powered vibes I have used in the past. I am no expert on toys, in fact, I got my first ones less than a year ago, but I would say this thing is the best one I have cum across. (wink)

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    Sorry about the double post, but when I tried to edit my first one, that is what happened. Dunno why.
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    Great news CowboyLover! I'm glad to hear I indirectly gave you pleasure too! ;) haha...

    Anyway... let us know how it went with your husband when we got home. That thing is AMAZING. We've been sick here the last week so no action recenty (and that's why I'm late reading these posts). It truly IS Hitachi's 'MAGIC' wand isn't it? :)
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    OK, so as I mentioned, I got the Wand in the mail the other day and man, have I been getting my money's worth out of it! Last night, I took it out and showed it to my husband for the first time.

    I got naked and lay down on the bed face down and asked him to massage me with it, which he did with much enthusiasm. It felt so good to have him go up and down my whole body with the wand that soon I was so relaxed I was letting out little sounds of utter contentment and using my body language to tell him where I wanted him to work me.

    When he got to my buttocks, I spread my legs a bit and he moved the head of the wand to my ass and pussy as I arched my back and sighed. I got hotter and hotter as he worked it over me, until finally, I reached for the gee-whiz head attachment and the lube and had him put it on the wand. He inserted the head into my wet pussy and started working it in and out. I found that laying on my stomach was making it too hard for the bump on the head of the wand attachment to make contact with my clit, so I rolled over and had hubby reinsert it into my pussy and slowly fuck me with it.

    It felt great, but the clitoral stimulation wasn't quite what I wanted it to be, so I took the wand into my own hands and had hubby suck and pinch my nipples in a most ferocious manner and I ground the wand into my swollen clit and dripping pussy. I was getting close, but still not there, so I turned the wand up on "high" and ravaged myself with it as my hubby tore at my rock hard nipples.

    I came very hard, screaming like an animal as my husband quickly manuevered himself between my legs to penetrate me. I pushed him away, rolled over, and got on my hands and knees and guided his cock into my throbbing box. As he stoked me hard and fast I leaned back, receiving each thrust with intense pleasure. The feeling inside of my pussy was incredible and took my breath away. I came very close to coming again, but did not. I have never been able to come from just having a cock inside of me with no clitoral stimulation, but the wand must have really aroused me by hitting my g-spot because I came very close.

    My hubby came pretty fast, as usual, but he said he really felt my pussy contracting around his cock, something he hasn't felt since I had my son 9 years ago. He was so excited about how I felt that he got hard again within a few minutes (something that almost never happens) and fucked me again, this time missionary style, until he had another huge climax. It didn't feel as good to me as the first time he was inside of me, so next time I will make sure to use the wand on myself in between times to keep my state of arousal at a high.

    I am really excited about using the wand in future sessions with my husband, and of course, on myself, when he is at work. Oh, and I forgot to tell you all the best part. The company made a mistake in my order, and sent me another wand and head attachment the day after my first one arrived. They only charged me for the first one. Hmmm, wonder what I can do with two wands.......:dgrin
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    Here's a tip -- Not sure what the gee wiz attachment is (I'll google it) but I got the gspot attachment for my wife and I let her take control of the thing. She moves it around inside of her until she finds that spot that makes her feel a tad uncomfortable at first -- like she has to pee -- and she holds it there.

    After a couple seconds she gets over the pee sensation and suddenly the orgasms begain to build like waves (g-spot types). She goes through several orgasms and then cranks the thing to high and ----

    let me stop here and say between orgasms will be so sensitive that it's uncomfortable.... you have the temptation to stop. DON'T STOP. TURN IT UP! You get through 20 or so seconds of it being senstive and uncomfortable just to have the next one rock your body harder than the previous one. seriously. It's unbelievable.

    After having about 5 to 10 of these orgasms, my wife is really ready to fuck like crazy. It does nothing but increase her desire and get her wound up.

    Being a very sexually driven male, I usually don't last very long either when I'm turned on a lot. So we've developed a system were I go ahead and have an orgasm during foreplay or even fucking her before we use the wand.... then she does this and cums multiple times and then I'm rock hard and ready all over again and THEN we can fuck for a while! It's great!
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    Well, I took your advice in trying to find my ever-elusive g-spot, no luck. :( I also tried to ride out the sensitivity of my clitoris after I orgasmed to try for another, and I just couldn't. I need a while to cool off and start up again, too bad hubby is asleep by the time I am ready for another go around. :(
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    <jumps up an down, flailing arms in the air> You could 'donate' it to research on the effects on senior citizens!!! And I make a great guinnea pig! :lol