When we first started dating she would share her ass with me at least twice a week, this continued up to about our 4th year of marriage and now I'm lucky to get in her butt on my birthdays. It's frustrating because I was always gentle and she even came from anal sex from time to time. I guess feeling change :-/ I suggested that we both see other people, maybe that would spice things up. I love her and I'm mentally secure to handle the thought of someone else nailing her good. This will also be a great opportunity to enjoy anal sex with other women who have expressed that they'd be more than willing to let me go balls deep in their butt.