I know that the male fantasy of wishing their wife/girlfriend to have sex with another man is fairly common, but I have never read anything about the same fantasy with the sexes reversed. My wife has dropped hints over the last few years, and the other night in bed I asked her (I said "is it okay if I have sex with other women?") and she got really (sexually) excited. It's not something I am planning to do in the near future BTW, I'm not even sure where I would get the "other women" from! But it does explain a lot to do with why our sex life has become so boring and why she has been so negative, - that's why I came out with it, because I thought that even if the worst happens it can't be much worse than it is anyway. Anyway, she definitely finds at least the thought of it a major turn on, but what is going on in her mind? I have some ideas but I'll see what others think first.