Hi all, I've been joining this site years ago, but only now that I started to post again. I have a highly unsatisfied sex life and today I can't stand it anymore, I have to let it out. Unfortunately there's no one around my life that I can talk to, so here goes. My wife SUCKS on bed. Don't get me wrong, I love her so much. Never once I committed any act of disloyalty towards her, an affair or anything alike. She's a great mother to my daughter, a superb boss at her work, and an excellent caretaker for me and my dear daughter. But our sexlife sucks. Big time. She hasn't in any way refuse me when I ask for sex, not 'officially'. However the days that I found her too tired for sex is much, much more than I could bare. That comes to our session, and I'll tell you guys how it usually goes. When I kiss her, she didn't even reply my kiss. She gave her lips for me to kiss, but didn't even open her mouth. Not even after 5 minutes of kissing. GOD DAMN that pisses me off. And during sex, her hands lay on her side, no matter how long I kiss her whole body, played with her breast, kiss her back, everything you could imagine. They were also times when we make love while the tv was on, I caught her watching THE GOD DAMN tv, and forgot that we're having sex. She wouldn't even hug me, and if I want that, it was me myself that has to put her arms around me, only for her arms to fall back to her side again after 30 second. And my penis? She wouldn't even touch it, unless I asked her too. Then she would do it, for like 20 seconds. No stimulation, nothing. She didn't even moan, or make any sound for that matter. I usually kiss her lips, then her neck and chest (not breast), while caressing her arms. Then I kissed her underarms, the side of her body, her stomach, ribs, and shoulders. Only after a while that I slowly touch her breast, kiss it, and played her nipple with my tongue or mouth. After that, I turn her over (yes, I, I, I turned her over, she's like lifeless doll), kiss her entire back, sometimes while gently squeezing her breast, kissing her neck from behind, and lay her again to kiss her body all over, again. Usually during this time she's wet and ready. But no sound, no motion, no movement, nothing. Then usually I'll open up her legs (yes, I, again, she won't open it by her own). Then I'll fuck her, until she reached orgasm several times, and I know this when she's cramped her whole body. No sound, no motion, no nothing else. Then she'll started to fall asleep. Oral sex? She dislikes it, giving AND receiving. If I kiss and lick her pussy, she'll stare at the ceiling. And if I touch her clit after half an hour of foreplay, she'll lose her mood immediately. (WTF?????) I'm soooooo jealous of anyone out there who's having a girl that can give you a good BJ once in a while. Once a week would be fantastic. And please, don't any of yo give me the 'talk to her' answer, I've tried that more than a hundred times. I've even gave her books and articles on the importance of good sex to a marital constitution. She'd read it, abide by it for 2 weeks, then we're back to square one. So to conclude, SHE SUCKS and I can't stand it anymore. But what can I do, it's not that I have a choice or anything. She has a very beautiful face and body, I'm attracted to her today as I was when I first met her. I love her sooo much, and I wanna love her for the rest of my life. But this issue is eating me inside out. And for addition, I worked out a lot with my kettlebell, 4 times a week. I have a low body fat, take my bath twice per day, brush my teeth at least 3 times a day, and always clean up my private parts EVERYTIME we're having sex. Just wanna let it out. Thank guys for listening. I'm at the phase where I really don't believe anyone could help me solve this, but letting it out helps. I guess. Cheers.