My Wife, Me, and a Toy...Please Help

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  1. BinghamtonNY

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    My wife has had several dreams during her last pregnancy where she sucked me and fucked a toy at the same time as well as having me inside her and having a dildo rubbing "near her butt" to quote her. I had made the suggestion to her and within a few days she had these dreams. I was very surprised since 8 yrs ago when we got married she would have never thought of using a dildo. She has come a LONG WAY.

    Well, our second child is 4 months old now and after looking at dildos for some time, she found one she wants to try. We ordered it and should arrive Wednesday. It's called "Stormy's Favorite Dick." She still doesn't have her libido back (sleepless nights, breastfeeding, etc) but is coming along. I want this experience to be at least close to as good as it was in her dreams.

    I'm looking for some pics online showing DP using a dildo and a real cock. Does anyone know of sites to find pics in this genre?

    I've looked through tons of free sites and have not yet found any. I know it's a very specific request, but viewing such pics will get my wife more comfortable with the idea.

    Any suggestions on good positions? I doubt she will ever try anal. She is dead set against it. She said she usally visualizes sitting on the dildo on a chair while giving me a bj. The dildo we ordered has a suction cup bottom so this should work.

    As much as she wants to try the dildo, seeing her use it will get me really excited. Do women who use a dildo during sex or oral sex with a man tend to fantasize about a mfm situation?

    Thanks for you help folks and enjoy your Sunday!
    Joe
     
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    Joe,when I first started playing with toys and my honey at the same time,he started getting his way in all ways.And to answer your question,it will make a woman think about the mfm,or fmf.:p
     
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    I like the title...it makes me think of a movie :D
     
  4. BinghamtonNY

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    If only that were a possibility. I've suggested making movies -- the two of us, but she'd dead set against it.

    I figured we could start slow so I told her how hot a handjob movie would be -- her hand and my cock. She's got really long nails (real ones). But she said "no" to that, too.

    Oh well. This toy thing is going to be really hot, I presume. It's supposed to arrive on Wednesday. Inlaws are visiting starting Thurs through early next week so I really want to get wife to try it as soon as we buy it otherwise I'm afraid we'll have to wait.
     
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    Handjob movie, not a bad idea.
     
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    I would never recommend pressuring a woman to do anything she's not into, but me and an ex of mine were in the same boat. She despised the thought of anal. So one time while we were "69'ing", I started to rub around her asshole then and she started to moan (a good moan, not a "stop it" moan, lol). So I kept going and eventually put a finger in. From then on, she LOVED my playing with her ass. Not that she loves anal everyday, but hey, it might get the ball rolling for you. Again, I would never suggest to pressure someone, but give it a try and see her reaction, you may be surprised.

    P.S.
    I see your from Binghamton. Small world, I Live in Johnson City.
     
  7. melicious

    melicious The Old Maid
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    This is the first toy we did "dp" with. He said I felt tight, and that he could feel every bump in the toy as he moved in and out. Since then, we use many toys for double penetration, same hole, or different hole. I admit, though, that the only thing I have had inside of me while I sucked my husband, was another man.
     
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    Melicious,
    Were you always into having sex with another man while giving your husband oral?

    How did you get interested in it?

    My wife gets very wet when we watch porn (we occasionally do) and MFM scenes come on. She doesn't talk about it but watching it is obviously a turn on for her. Trying it in real life, however, will be a big step!
     
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    The dildo arrived via UPS a day early. Had a couple drinks last nights and got it on with the wife. I started rubbing her with the dildo and she helped to get the motion right. Anyway, she had a great orgasm and the whole time she was giving me oral.

    During it, I mentioned how she can now say she's "had two dicks at once" and that I'm impressed how well she can "handle two dicks".

    It was AWESOME...Can't wait to do it again.
     
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    My wife and I enjoy using toys. I'll get her on all fours and use a dildo/vibrator in her pussy while I finger or lick her asshole. Always makes for a huge orgasm :)
     
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    The position I like is to straddle her head with my cock in Her mouth and facing her pussy,
    Then pull her legs back and put them under my arms. That put her pussy
    right in your face. You will have to put one hand on the floor, bed or wherever
    you are at. Now take the other hand to insert the dildo. Make sure it hits the "G" spot
    Using this position will allow you to lick Her clit also.
    try it you will like it because this position gives you full control
    of how far you are putting it in Her mouth. But don't gag Her.

    Hiker


    A note to Mel. This position should be great for the anal beads along with the dildo.
    I wont suggest another Guy in this position though.
     
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    wow...i stumbled upon this topic at the right time...me and my s.o. used a dildo in my ass for the first time yesterday. he put it in there while he penetrated my pussy...and it felt amazing. he really enjoyed it too...i thought this was the right place to talk about it :p
     
  13. Barbwire

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    Hiker, please provide a picture of you doing this. Feel free to send it to me privately if you are too shy to post it here. :brow