I have been married now for 10 years and went out with my wife for 3 years before we were married. When we first started going out sex was fantastic .. both of us just loved having sex .. sometimes I thought she would wear me out !! We had a couple of children and now they are both around 6 so they are going to school and she has time at home to herself now .. she is starting her own business and seems to enjoy life. We love each other very much and she seems happy and content with her lifestyle. The trouble is that our sex life has been terrible since the birth of our first child as we only have sex about once every 6 weeks and it’s ALWAYS me that initiates the moment. I have talked to her so many times about this and tell her how much I love her body and how much she turns me on and that I would make love to her every day if I could. I thought I might be pressuring her too much so I didn’t mention it for about 3 months .. but that made it worse as we only made love once in that time. I romance her all the time .. flowers, special treats .. in fact the girls I work with say they wish their husbands did that sorta stuff for them. I have tried not romancing her too .. thinking I might be over doing it .. still no change. I find her the sexiest and most beautiful woman I have ever had a relationship with and when we do have sex it is still fantastic .. just like the first time. She normally orgasms and says she enjoys it however she does say that it doesn’t feel as good as it did since she has had the children .. but she still really enjoys it. I thought it might be me .. maybe I’m not sexy anymore ..but over the past year or so I have been propositioned by three girls that I know .. wanting me to have sex with them .. I have resisted as I didn’t want to cheat .. but it was so tempting .. the feeling of being wanted sexually again was a real ego boost. I just don’t know what to do anymore .. I have run out of ideas .. I have recently resorted to chatting on the web with other women for some sexual excitement .. but it’s just not the same .. can anybody make any suggestions ???