Let me start of by saying I love my wife. Sexually, I have no problems with her. With that being said, she is driving me crazy! Just little things that have escalated to being major annoyances. For instance, she leaving the door or curtains open in whatever room I'm in while I'm nude. I have always been self conscience about my body. We sleep in separate rooms (she has to have a noise machine on and I have to have a sleep apnea machine on). We live with my daughter and son in law. I usually go to bed before she does, and she will always come into my room to talk a while and kiss me goodnight. And leave the door open. Or when she gets ready to leave the room, leave it open. I'm disabled and getting out of bed to close it is painful and difficult. Today I was in the bathroom getting ready to get in the shower and she just had to step in to tell me some earth shattering news. And of course prop the door open with a chair and leave, knowing my other son in law would be coming over in just a couple of minutes. After she left, I yelled and asked her if there was any particular reason she had left it opened. She said it was because the door had just swung itself open. I answered OK, but that doesn't explain the chair. We have air conditioning. The other day I laid down for a nap. I woke up and she had opened the curtains and there I was, laying naked, for our female mail carrier or whoever drove up the road to see. But, if someone comes to the house while she's in the shower, heaven forbid I not rush to the bathroom and warn her, just in case she would step across the hall to her room in only her panties or a robe. The other thing is her constantly putting things away and forgetting where she puts them. Her stuff. My stuff. Our stuff. It doesn't matter. I don't know how many times we've had to spend $$$$ on replacement stuff she's hid and can't find. Right now I'm hunting for glue I bought and she hid. I would have put it away, the next time I'd went to my hobby office, if she'd put it in my bedroom where I could find it. A lot of our trouble is we are together 24 hours a day, 7 days a week ( usually) and baby sitting a 7 month old every day and a six year old a lot. There is a reason women go through menopause. We're not suppose to still be raising newborns when you are 57 years old. I apologize for the rant. I have tried talking to her and it doesn't do any good.