My wife, in which I found out got her ex-boyfriend and First a job at a place she used to work at, which I didnt like that, but we talked and I told her it bothered me and I didnt want any contact between them anymore. She said there wouldnt be, but that sometimes they may run into each other at an event(political) and if he approached her she would say hello and that would basically be it. I was content with that, but just yesterday I was at her work and she had her email pulled up and he had just responded to an email she sent him. She said it was just about something she found out about his employer and she was just informing him of it, but I told her I didnt care and that its not her place to inform him of anything, because she doesnt work for him. I also reminded her of our conversation in which she said there would be no contact, but here she was emailing him!! She said she had forgotten that she said that, which I believe is total BS, but no I dont think anything is going on between them other than friendship, but he took her virginity and I know he will always be special to her for that and thats what makes me so uncomfortable and I cant understand why she cant understand my feelings. Am I wrong for feeling this way?