My strange sexual fetish

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by jarmc22, Aug 17, 2013.

  1. jarmc22

    jarmc22 New Member

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    I'm a masculine, athletic male who loves everything about the female sex from their bodies all the way to their personalities. I have a girlfriend and I very much enjoy sex with her. With that being said, for the past few years I have had a strong attraction to well-endowed cocks which has gotten stronger and stronger as time has gone on. I want to be clear, nothing else on a man turns me on except for a nice, well endowed cock. I have never acted on my fantasies but I've been really wanting to perform oral sex on a well endowed cock. I can spend hours watching porn of women giving head to hung guys. Watching a man give head to another man does not turn me on in any way.

    This started out as a minor cock attraction but its become an obsession of mine which I feel is getting out of control. Im not sure what I am trying to accomplish by posting this. Maybe its just to get it off my chest. Id love to hear your comments.
     
  2. CaramelLady

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    It is not that uncommon. You would be surprised by how many men have this fantasy.
     
  3. TonyMe

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    Take it from another guy Caramel Lady is right I think you would be surprised how many men have this exact same feeling ...... me included :)
     
  4. Meee

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    We get a lot of threads like this in these forums. They follow exactly the same formula: I'm a masculine guy, I'm sexually attracted to women, I have a girlfriend, but I've started having an attraction to cocks and the attraction has been growing; I don't have any other attraction to men, but I really want to suck a cock.

    So, this is not a rare situation, and it certainly isn't "strange." However, you say you feel that it's getting out of control. What part of it have you been trying to control? Is the porn getting to be a problem?
     
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    It's a fantasy. We all have them. You don't have to act on it, and even if you did, it would be ok. Stop making yourself crazy about it.

    You feel how you feel, you attracted to what you are attracted to.
    YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE.
     
  6. Redline1

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    You should try sucking on a life like dildo. My wife lets me fuck her with it while I lick her clit till she cums and then lets me suck her dildo clean while I jerk off. It's really fun when she talks to me about me sucking on her cock. You should give that a try. Sometimes I feel guilty about enjoying it but if she likes it your good to go. She really likes it when I start licking and sucking on the balls of the dildo. She is ready for round two after that. It's good fun.
     
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    I forgot to say I'm much like you about being a mans man kinda guy. I'm women only that's for sure but for some reason I have that exact attraction. I don't mind the tranny thing as long as they are extremely feminine. I think that would be the only way I could be with a real cock.
     
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    i see it like this we are who we are so if you want to do it go for it you might love it or maybe not like it you will still be the same person we all need to love & be happy with who we are if you love something why hold back & miss out on that something :D
     
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    Hi all, just wanted to share a few thoughts:
    I have never fantasized about a real cock because the fact that it is attached to a guy makes it a turnoff for me. However, I have evolved into having many fantasies about being forced to suck my wife's strap-on cock and licking my own cum off of it. I haven't acted on these because my wife is very vanilla and freaks out at the sign of anything edgy. I have sucked on a nice silicone dildo to see what it was like and it was very hot and a lot of fun. Maybe you can give that a try as a way to act out your fantasy without crossing the line you seem to be resisting.