I am 28 years old and have been married for 7 years (in oct) we have had our ups and downs. Have a 3 year old boy and another on the way. But my relationship is very sexually frustrating. And ive talked to her about it before but ahe is set in her ways. Which are sex once every couple months. We have to be alone, in bedroom with lights off at night. SO FREAKING BORING right? i want new things. im the kinda guy who will do and try anything but i am held back tremendously. so for time being i will have to live my fantasies through yall on here since i have to hide my fantasies and fetishes from my wife. I wish i could just be me. Sorry for long post i just thought i needed to share.