My story

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by Brads1307, Aug 26, 2016.

  1. Brads1307

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    I am 28 years old and have been married for 7 years (in oct) we have had our ups and downs. Have a 3 year old boy and another on the way. But my relationship is very sexually frustrating. And ive talked to her about it before but ahe is set in her ways. Which are sex once every couple months. We have to be alone, in bedroom with lights off at night. SO FREAKING BORING right? i want new things. im the kinda guy who will do and try anything but i am held back tremendously. so for time being i will have to live my fantasies through yall on here since i have to hide my fantasies and fetishes from my wife. I wish i could just be me. Sorry for long post i just thought i needed to share.
     
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    Welcome. Glad you're here. You'll have fun for sure and also meet a lot of people who can relate to what you're going through :)
     
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    Thank you MariaMaria. I feel this place will let me be free
     
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    Welcome, my SO is not as sexually boring as you describe, but I still share some of the same pent up, held back feelings as you. Don't let being a parent or her sexual conservatism drive you to resentment. I wholly understand why you can't necessarily talk to her about it, so I'm glad you've found a place to vent like me.
     
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    Welcome, sorry to hear this, but you can live vicariously through us!
     
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    Welcome, My wife and I love each other very much but since she went through menopause she just isn't interested in sex much anymore. We maybe have sex ever few months or so. I have also developed ED and need to take a viagra an hour or so before so that cuts down on the spontaneity. Very frustrating. I have resorted to watching porn and jacking off on a regular basis.