Well, I said goodbye to my SO on Thursday. I thought long and hard and realised that his controlling, interfering sister and draining clingy mother were not going anywhere. I gave him an ultimatum a month ago that he needed to start putting our relationship over his sisters need to control, and no donut. So it is over. I am far to old to hang around and hope anymore. Those are childs hopes. He will never change. He is a wonderful man and I love him very much, but he has no spine when it comes to his family and he never put me or us first. So yeah, back to being single, AGAIN!