My Mom and a Much Younger Guy

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  1. TLM006

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    My Mom is the definitive blonde, buxom 40-year-old bombshell. She turns heads everywhere she goes and has to wear a ring (even though she divorced my Dad three years ago) to keep men from hitting on her too much.

    To make a long and detailed story short, she has begun dating a friend of mine's older brother, who is both 27 and black. A very unique set of circumstances made her finally say yes to a date with him. It has shocked everyone but, I will admit, made life interesting and extremely out-of-body surreal as of late. I want to note that I do not want my Mom, though I find her sexuality intriguing (especially lately).

    Has anyone else ever dealt with this? I would love to tell someone all about it who would be willing to be a good, anonymous listener. I may even show a pic or two of her if interested.
     
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    Very unique except in the world of porn lol, but i'm sure it's an interesting story. If you ever get brave, you're more than welcome to post it in our Erotic Literature section.
     
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    I believe that your statement that you would "even show a pic or two of her if interested" shows that you are a bullshit artist.
     
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    I didn't mean face.
     
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    We don't need to see photos of your mother, it's actually against the forum rules to show photos of people without their express permission. Especially if you're going to be showing photos of other parts of her body that aren't her face. I'd be curious, as her son, how you came about these photos.

    Anyhow, your mom can date whomever she damn well pleases and regardless of how strange it is, it's not any of your concern.
     
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    That's kinda creepy, that you keep pix around of your mom like that, nude or not.

    Honestly, i've never been in that situation, my mom has married to my dad since the mid 70's, but if they divorced, i really wouldn't care who she dated. All i'd care about is her happiness. And even if they had "special circumstances" (though honestly i think all meetings have special circumstances) I would not be sharing them in this fashion.

    I need to ask...how does your mom feel about this? Putting what i presume her sex life out in the open (even done in discrete chats) and offering pix of her, presumably to arouse the other party
     
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    :uhyeah
     
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    wow that is so cool thanks for sharing yay i didnt think this post was worth punctuation capitalization or descent speling yup
     
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    Mittimer-while I agree with most of what you said, being her son it is definitely something he has a right to concern himself with. If it was anyone else then no, its not.
     
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    I agree 1000% with this statement.
     
  11. Mittimer

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    If he were concerned for her well being with this man, then of course it would be his business who she is dating.
    But this is not the case. He wants to tell us her story and show us her pictures and all this other bullshit.

    I will admit, if I had a child and starting dating someone their age, I wouldn't be upset if they were concerned, but would be furious if they came to a forum wanting to exploit my love life.
     
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    Yeah I would be furious, and personally, the interracial thing bothers me more. It's just one of those things that bugs me deep down and I can't control it.

    And posting pics of your moms goodies is weird man.
     
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    I have to roll my eyes at that personally.
    I've grown up in a family with a vast majority of interracial relationships.

    My Sister who is 5 foot 3, tiny little brunette thing married a 6 foot 5 African American man. She has 2 beautiful interracial children. A daughter who is 8 and a son who is 6. Their color means nothing to me. They are my niece and nephew and I love them with ever fiber of my being.

    My oldest Brother married a Puerto Rican woman. They have 3 beautiful daughters. Again, the color of their skin means nothing to me. They are my nieces and I couldn't be happier.

    My other Brother was married twice, both times to Caucasian women. 2 sons and 1 daughter out of that. Being strictly one race doesn't make me love them more.

    I can not have children. My Husband and I plan on adopting an Oriental child simply to finish to colorful rainbow that is my family. I'm PROUD to say that my family isn't intolerant or racist and welcomes every color of skin with very open arms.


    /end rant
     
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    And that I agree with...:)
     
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    The interracial thing doesn't bother me either. I am white and my wife is fairly dark skinned Latin.
     
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    See I knew this was ganna cause controversy and should have said anything. Let me just assure that it HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SKIN COLOR! I am not a redneck waving a confederate flag here. Right, with that said I have no racial hatred whatsoever with this particular combination. My best friend and practically brother from another mother is black and so are most of my longest known friends i gree up with. My bro just proposed to an Ethiopian girl and I sincerely congradulate them. Cool chick too.

    Let me try and explain my personal feelings here, and let me be purely honest. I'll guess I'll have to admit that the biggest thing that bothers me is probably jelousy. When I see a black guy with a white woman, the first thing that comes to mind is that she is only dating him because as the stereotype goes, black guys are well packaged. I just picture the guy saying yeah I got me a white woman. To me it feels like they please the same woman better than i can. I'm kind of a caveman type of guy. And the fact that his fuckin mom is dating a black guy thats the kids age urks me the wrong way. It also gives me the first impression that she is a whore, not only bc he's black, but wants some young booty. I don't know why either but I can't help it. I guess it's just all the movies, porn, and racial jokes that are made (although are funny) and how society acts towards it.

    Remember that thread in sexual fantasies by mastersean I think his sn is... Yeah, I cringed my teeth in hatred in the way that he explained his opening post, it's exactly the way he said it, "frail white ass staring at his wife getting fucked by a black guy". Fuck you Sean. Im sorry but that shit offended me on a personal level. I now feel like I hate that guy to death even though I don't know him and I would punch him in the face if I had the chance.
     
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    It's very difficult to overcome deep seated "beliefs" even when you know in your heart they're just wrong. I grew up in a small midwestern town with a very white population. At that time, to me, "ethnic" was Polish or German, with a bit of Scandinavian mixed in. All I knew of other cultures was gleaned from family, TV, or school. Imagine my dismay, hesitance, and apprehension as an 8th grade member of my wrestling team when I had to wrestle the first black person I'd ever seen in person. I know this sounds weird, but I was almost afraid to touch him! Who the hell knows where that came from, but I've often thought about that moment in later years.

    I truly believe hate is a learned behavior. Stick a bunch of preschoolers in a room for a while, and they don't care about skin color beyond simple curiosity. I think kids and young adults now days are much less racially biased (in the US), and I hope and believe that trend will continue.

    p.s. These beliefs CAN be overcome...