OK....here's the DL. I'm married and the husband has (I guess) lost his sexual appetite. We barely have sex and the desire is way gone....it's boring. So, one day I went to a casual sexual encounter site and put together a profile....after a few weeks I found a really sweet guy (with that bad boy look) and started chatting with him. At first I really just wanted someone to pay attention and notice me....wasn't really looking for a 'sex upon meeting' person since I've never cheated on my husband before. It's been a month now since I've been talking with this guy who lives in a different state and is only an hour away (I've visited him 2 times already). When I go over there, it like visiting with a best friend who's got the same interests as me...I'm so comfortable. We've not had sex but we've gone into a full mindblowing make out session on his couch...so intense...something I've not ever felt with my husband. And that's where I'm at. This guy lives in my head and makes me feel things I've not felt in a long time....I'm always excited to hear his voice and he tells me things that really my husband should be telling me. I feel bad about this and I DO REALLY love my husband and I know he loves me, but he's not so much as an emotional, loving, 'pay mind to your wife' kind of man. And this guy is giving me all that and more.... I'm afraid to hang on to this guy with our relationship for it may ruin my marriage to a great hard working husband, but I'm afraid to let go for I may be back to my boring depressing lack of attention marriage.