My Hymen

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  1. mindcandy

    mindcandy New Member

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    Hello, I'm almost 19, and every time my boyfriend tries to get it in, he can't break my hymen. I've never been inclined to masturbate and I've never had sex before, but the first few times we tried I was in a lot of pain and now its just a feeling of pressure, like trying to push into a sheet of thick rubber I can feel it pushing but it never seems like its going to break my hymen.
     
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    You should try masterbation. That will help you to get to know your own body in what makes you feel good and have an orgasm. Then teach your boyfriend how to do the same. This will help to also naturally lubricate your vagina, which might also help with getting thru your hymen, hopefully with less pain.
     
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    My first sex was with a pretty big fella. The first couple of tries we couldn't get it in. I used smaller items and then larger and gradually stretched my hymen. I'd try that first. Use lubrication. You don't need to buy dildoes, but smaller ones would work. You should be able to find household items that will do the job. Get yourself some KY jelly and be patient. After doing gradual stretching, the first time sex shouldn't hurt.
     
  4. Puss_in_boots

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    It seems to me like it'd be pretty hard to have hymen penetration problems and erection difficulties at the same time:

    So what gives, Mindcandy? Are you a boy or a girl? Are you a hermaphrodite?
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    :rofl Miss P n B - you are the absolute BEST!! It will be interesting to learn how a guy is worried about his "hymen" and his "erection problems" at the same time. They definitely never taught THAT in SexEd-101!!
     
  6. da old dude

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    Good Catch PIB, This is very funny.

    Well then, it's clear MC is a hermy. MC is there anything we should know?
     
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    Hey, hermaphrodites are cool. Check some of the hermaphrodite porn on YouTube!
     
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    da old dude Member

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    Hi BD,

    I was being facetious. Lord knows I can't have HAA coming down on me here for hermy descrimination! That's the Hermorphadite Association of America BTW.

    Also BTW, I'm a big fan FC, she's hot, and you have the good fortune of having her.
     
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    I know. ;)

    Good, agreed, and yes I do! (And she has the good fortune of having me as well. ;))

    BD
     
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    WTF??/:girlfight
     
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    Awww, thanks! **Blushes**

    Yes, I do....