So, the title of this thread says it all. My husband loves being taken up the ass ! I don't mind doing it to him as it turns me on to see him so excited, I find it very arousing as it's such a taboo thing to do. The thing is, girls like to disect their sex lives with their friends right ? when my friends ask about mine I clam up ! I daren't say anything as it would definately be seen as too much information and they would all probably decide he is gay anyway, so I've never mentioned it or spoke about it to anyone. I don't even know if doing stuff like this with your husband is normal :ugh ! I can't find much info on the net about the type of stuff we do in the bedroom, I know some men like to have their butts licked and maybe one or 2 fingers inserted, but my hubby likes to be fisted (I'm not joking) or he likes me to use a great big strap on and butt plugs etc... Is this what is referred to as female domination ? or some form of it ? I don't tie him to the bed or beat him up or anything but the whole being taken up the ass by your wife thing seems to be a little submissive to me ? I think our sex life is exciting, although at first I was very alarmed at the thought of it (his ex wife very kindly informed me of his ermm, preferences one day) he tried to deny it for a long time after I found out. I think it was about a year before we discussed it properly he said he thought I would leave him and think he was disgusting and gay. He is definately not gay ! it did cross my mind in the begninning but I know better now. Is anyone else on here in the same boat ? can anyone give me any tips or advice on things that my husband might enjoy without it being too bdsm-y ? any help or advice or views would be appreciated !