My husband and I finally talked!

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  1. sexyJ

    sexyJ New Member

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    Thank you ALL for encouraging communication so much. I really realized that what are problem is isn't with sex or cheating or anything to the sort it was with communication. We suck at communicating and I will be the first to admit it! I am over spoken and he shuts down..It helps nothing.

    So last night after some arguing we had a heart to heart.. I hope to start communicating about my wants and needs in the bedroom better instead of getting mad because he isn't reading my mind!

    Wish me luck for a better future with my husband:)
     
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    I wish you all the luck in the world! I am so glad for you! It can be so hard to keep communication going, but once you start, it becomes easier and easier! Good for you girlfriend! :)
     
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    Yeah! I hate it when men shit down! LOL! Just kidding girl!

    Glad it is all working out for you!
     
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    omg..lmfao and I re read that too...ya but he does shit down too LMFAO!!!!
     
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    That was a major part of our problem too (mentioned in another thread on here). In our case, both of us find it hard to talk about things, which is part of why it took years to finally have it happen. All the best wishes to you!:)
     
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    Great news! Now, keep the ball rolling.
     
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    Here's to good new beginnings. Keep it up.

    Wishing you all the best.
     
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    thanks you all!!!! :)
     
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    Hey lady! I have your back! Anytime you need to talk, let me know. I have been through it all and back, and I am finally HAPPY! ((HUGS))
     
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    Congratulations. Hopefully, it keeps getting better
     
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    Thank you!!:)
     
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    Glad to hear that you all got to have a heart to heart. Communication is the key to any relationship, in and out of the bedroom. Make sure you continue with the communication even if it is slow going!!
    Wishing you the best!!
     
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    Great to see you value your relationship enough to try and salvage it :D so many people give up!