Anyone that has been on this site for a while obviously see that I have a major hotwife , wife sharing , swinging , or whatever you want to call it , fantasy. These are one of those things I sort of miss the SF Group section . Now I have many fantasies of all nature it seems. But this one and the many many scenerios that are associated with it have been constant. Every time I masturbate , not even to a finish every time , I am thinking of it , watching vids and pics. Every time my wife says something that I could turn into a hint or whatever I get turned on. Every time she goes out I get hot thoughts. Even when we have sex. Now I have had a swinging and open relationship before so I am not new to this or a veteran. Some of my fantasies and scenerios are "realistic" as in if we do this this is more likely to happen or we are more likely to try. Some probably wouldn't happen due to several reasons like it's just not her nature or not mine or not someone else's or maybe extreme or just hot as a thought. We don't have the greatest communication when it comes to sex for the basic reasons , self concious ness, past difference and experience , yadda yadda , but it is getting much better. She knows that I have a thing for threesomes and such but there hasn't been a discussion. Just comments here and there and the start of a discussion that you can see fade quickly with awkwardness. Lately there has been more off handed comments from her that really make me think she is thinking about it to some extent. Now this fantasy is fine as just a fantasy. I love her and think she is very sexy and I am fine leaving it there. I am taking my time though and trying to think of the best way to discuss it if it comes up. Like trying to assure her that it's not because I want to sleep with other woman (of course yes if that was her idea I would probably be in) , that is not my goal. I just want to be able to help wrap her mind around the fact I think she is sexy , I feel lucky, I think it's incredible knowing that other men think she is sexy and in a lot of cases I would love to know about it or hear about it. I want to be able to get a different view point of sex with her. Her pleasure is the biggest turn on for me . Knowing her fantasies or her telling them to me would or is such a turn on. I know how she is in bed and to be able to " show her off" in that way would be amazing. And yes nice cocks can be a turn on visual for me also. How do I explain I want to see her get fucked. ..and fuck her with him. How do I explain all of the things that turn me on with this lol. I've had a few people that have know her and have said some sexual things that would make other men jealous or mad but I get turned on. I understand this isn't for everyone and some people just can't understand or like it. Now it's mostly about her being pleasured more than just i can. I have cuckold fantasies but in no way do I want to wear chastity or get talked to like I am a sissy but I do have cuckold fantasies where I am a sub. I don't want her to cheat however I have fantasies of her just going out and coming home with a story. Anyways , I just wanted to put that out there. If anyone has comments or questions please let em rip. Feel like a discussion message me.