My gf cheated on me with gangbang

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  1. Mikenilson

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    My flight attendant gf cheated on me with three guys(like gangbang). She s Korean,5' 8", with gymastic body, very beautiful(in my view). One of them is her boss and two of them are coworkers. I m in relationship with her for 6months then she cheated. They f***ed her in hotel and video taped. In the video those three guys doing all they want(mouth,v*****, a**) and my girl was still smiling like she wants more and more.:(. I didnt even f***ed her in the ass before. Then they all c** on her face and of course still smiling when her face was all covered. I dont know what to do , i still love her, i have crush on her for almost a year then we became couple. Before we r in relationship she had many boyfriends. I know she s not a good girl. She says sorry and don't even apologize properly to me I dont know what i should do.
     
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    Dump her...now..not because she enjoys gangbangs, but because she is willing to engage in such behavior without your previous knowledge...I challenge you to peruse this forum...it is full of men who get off on their wives/gfs fucking other dudes, but with their knowledge...
    She can apologize all day, she will do it again, and she'll either do a better job of hiding it next time, or just figure you don't have the testicular fortitude to leave and not care..
    She will try sex, at this point she'll probably offer you a threesome with another girl or even a "hall pass", all to unburden her conscience, not to make true amends with you.
    Dump her now..don't explain, don't give her a position to defend..tell her its over and you wish her well, and do not engage in any romantic or sexual contact at all.
     
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    Damn... sorry but that sounds kind of like a plot of a cheap porn screenplay. How did you come across the tape?
     
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    A friend of mine showed , who work with her.
     
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    Wow, she did give me hall pass -_- Is there way to reply in private?
     
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    Fuck the hall pass, I'd get the hell out yesterday. You're one in a long line of BFs for her, she'll cheat on the next dozen too. Unless you like being a door mat, dump her. I'd also get checked for STDs.
     
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    Funny story. Thanks for the laugh. Either this is just BS and is a fantasy of yours, or you're simply a clueless chump. If this is real, kick her to the curb and get some self respect.
     
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    Tell her absolutely NO more unless everybody is tested and you are invited
     
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    I get the feeling he's not looking to play team sports...
     
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    U guys have k ik? Mine s mikenilson1 add me .
     
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    Team sport mean letting her do with me? Does that help?
     
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    No, as in you teaming up with one or more guys to do her. If you're into that kind of thing then more power to you, I just got the impression from your original post that you were on the understanding that this was a monogamous relationship that you and her were in.
     
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    You say she is a bad girl!!...Sounds to me she is a very good girl~~You knew she had many boyfriends,Also sounds like you just set yourself up for disappointment..You have to respect the fact she likes what she does,If you dont,I'm very sure there won't be any relationship ...Get over it and move on if it isn't to your liking xo
     
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    Then u saying if I want to stop cheating behind , trying with me and other guys might help? U have k ik chat?
     
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    No... Just no. I may be socially monogamous but from what I've read of polyamory the biggest thing is communication. That's why I made sure in my other post to say that she's not bad for liking gangbangs. Her issue and ultimately what makes her a bad girlfriend is the fact that she thinks its ok to be engaging such behavior while she has a boyfriend that she didn't feel the need to divulge any of this information to. Cheating is cheating, doesn't matter if you're a prude or swinger. And having a lot of boyfriends is not a prerequisite for possible cheater, it just means she's very popular amongst the men.
     
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    No I do not have kik. And let me tell you now, you'll never stop her from cheating. That's a decision that she has to make all her own, and from what you've told me of her lackluster apology, it seems like a decision that she is not willing to make. This forum is definitely all about sex positivity, but let me tell you you're not doing yourself any favors by suddenly getting into gangbangs because your girlfriend cheated on you. Even if you're thinking about joining a gangbang, I recommend you do it with somebody else. She doesn't respect you, neither your relationship, nor, as demonstrated by her lack of condom use, your health.
    Given how you describe this girl, not that I want to make any assumptions about you and your attractiveness, it seems that this girl is probably amongst one of the hottest girls you've ever come across. And part of your reluctance to really assert yourself as the man you deserve to be stems from a fear that you're never going to find anybody as hot as she is. To that I say, who the hell cares? What good is hotness if she does not respect you at all?
    But don't let anger override your decision making process at this point. You've already made kind of a little mistake by her even being able to offer you a hall pass. Because given what she did and how you found out, I could tell you I wouldn't allow her to say two words to me. Nothing that she has to say, nor anything that she does, unless we're talking a drastic and fundamental change in lifestyle and profession is worth you having to listen to right now. And she did that to herself, not by liking sex with multiple partners, not for being sexually free, and not by being a s***. She did it by failing to open her mouth, to tell you what it is that turned her on, and giving you an opportunity to take part or move on.
     
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    Mikenilson,
    About Sagittarius comments, a hot looking girl is a hot looking girl, but does it make her the right one???
    I could speculate what goes on in her mind as she goes about enjoying multiple males.
    What makes it wrong is being in a relationship and not telling you and not being sincere in apologizing.
    That takes away the trust. If it had been something in the open and agreed to would be a different story if you were fine with it,
    but it looks like you are not fine with her doing this behind your back, no protection.
    Who knows where else the men she plays with have been for sex ..... it takes only once.
     
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    OP; this is one hot girl and if the heat is too much for you get the fuck out of the kitchen, she is not right for you.
    This girl is not a regular GF by any stretch of the imagination and will never be so make up your mind on getting out of the relationship or be one of the tag team but either ways it is you choice as she had heaps!
     
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    Sounds sort of naughty doesn't it?

    LOL!

    Omg