So here's my dilema: I have been married for 27 years to a sweet woman the last 7 of which have been sexless. She has a medical condition that makes sex painfull (prolapsed bladder I think) that she has yet to see a doctor about. But I understand that it hurts her and if the doctor told her she couldn't have sex anymore, it would be difficult but I would deal. Since she hasn't seen anyone about it it tells me that my sexual needs are not important to her. So my dilema is this... Do I just suck it up and accept that my sex life is over,do I leave her to find someone with a higher sex drive or do I find a sex buddy to fill my needs? Please I need advice.