[Ask a Girl] my boyfriends wants and likes to do rimjob on me

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  1. smiley717

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    I don't particularly like it done. And he gets mad and says "I am giving you pleasure and you don't like it"

    Is it possible to not enjoy it? Or is it just me?

    He's done it to me several times. I just don't enjoy it.
     
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    It's something you don't like he shouldn't force you.
     
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    Smiley, you say the strangest things....lol...if you don't enjoy it, it's probably because YOU DON'T ENJOY IT........I mean who else, other than yourself, can say what you like?." Just say no" to rimming, smiley..if you don't like it..it's up to you....not anyone else.
     
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    That's one of the most glaring self-contradictions I have ever seen :ugh
     
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    Exactly, glad I'm not the only one thinking it....
     
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    Fart next time he tries, that should put an end to it.
     
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    LOL ^^^^^

    yeah he cant possibly believe that every woman is the same. im sure he's done it to someone in his past and they may have loved it. but you're not her and you dont....he needs to come up with something else.
     
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    I want to hear his side of the story. If he's not hurting you and he likes doing it what's the problem. I'm sure he's done things for you that he didn't want to do.
     
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    What part of "I don't particularly like it done." and "I just don't enjoy it." isn't understood? This isn't him going down on her one her period or something. This is him being a pissy little boy over something she does not like yet he insists on doing, and then trying to make her feel guilty for not liking it. His side of the story doesn't matter.
     
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    Tex you should know theres always two sides to a story. Something just smells.
     
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    Lol.....I get it......:lol
     
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    Try it just 3 more times at least. Try it with a buzz on at least once. If you still don't like it, enoughs enough
     
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    What I want to know is how do you not like it? All you do is lay there and let him do all the work. Is he trying to make you do it to him?
     
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    I'm guessing she has sometime of mental aversion to it.

    It's possible if she tries it with a buzz on she might well really enjoy it.
     
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    I would imagine it being like anything else someone might not like. Maybe you don't like a finger in your ass while you get a BJ, or any number of other things? Doesn't matter if she just lays there while he does it. If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. Really isn't much more to it.