My boyfriend jerks off during sex?

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  1. asianbabex3

    asianbabex3 New Member

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    So, I guess sometimes, after some foreplay, when we start intercourse, my boyfriend isn't quite hard yet. Before he puts the condom on sometimes he will jack off, briefly, for about 10 seconds. Is that considered akward? Because I do find it a little akward that he does that.
     
  2. Barbwire

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    It may feel less awkward for you to know that I have found it to be fairly common. Sometimes dicks have minds of their own and they need to be brought to attention by a hand or a mouth. That's just how it is.

    It's important that his cock is fully erect when he's putting a condom on so it goes on right. If a condom isn't put on right, it can slip off. I applaud him for taking proper precautions to make sure that doesn't happen.

    Welcome to the forums, BTW. :)

     
  3. heelfetish

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    Ditto the excellent advice from CL. It may seem awkward, but in reality, he's just ensuring things are nice & erect before 'installing' the condom.

    From my personal experience, the act of putting on a condom, well actually, the act of finding a condom, tearing it from the strip, then working the packaging open, then finally putting it on can have a detrimental effect on a man's erection. Especially under the stress of a new relationship. Chances are he just does not want to lose his erection while his mind is concentrating on the important act of putting on the condom.

    Pay it no mind, and rest assured that it is perfectly normal.
     
  4. igor

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    I do that myself and I don't use condoms any more. I do it when I apply lube just before intercourse. If it seems awkward to you you could do it to him yourself.
     
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    On the rare occasion that we use condoms, I apply the condom for him. That way he has no difficulty in staying hard.
     
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    take matters into your own hands or mouth
     
  7. HardRocker

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    So far everybody that had a real answer gave the same reason, to make sure it is fully erect so the rubber fits right. That's not jacking off, it's just getting it done.
     
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    I do it once in a while! My gf helps me! It's fun switching on and off!
     
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    DW and I always masturbate together during foreplay. I don't usually cum from masturbation, but sometimes she wants me to cum on her boobs. She will usually cum during masturbation and then she cums again when we fuck. I love to watch her cum while using a realistic, vibrating dildo.