On another Forum, a married woman posted that her husband, H, had been going out with another woman, and that H was masturbating with the other woman. H liked to masturbate and watch the other woman masturbate and they would both climax this way. Well the married woman was upset that H was stepping out. Now the married woman is concerned that her H is strange. It does not seem so strange to me. Many wives are only intersted once in 3 weeks or so. My wife is not really cooperative with more frequent copulation. I make up for lax times wtih masturbation with my wife in bed, usually she is watching TV or half-asleep. To find a woman who is willing to mutually masturbate seems like a treasure to me. I did a search on mutual masturbation and did not come up with much here on Sexul Forums, so I thought I would start this thread. Maybe somebody can tell me why the married lady is right to think her husband is strange. Maybe if the married Lady had not set up a boundary against masturbation in the martial bedroom, then H would have felt comfortable masturbating with his wife. I had a girl friend once who was against masturbation. Kind of limited my style. Maybe somebody has an idea of how things should be better.