Hello All! Its been awhile since I have been on here I know! For a long time I was having trouble logging in. Finally figured it all out. I have been reading on here about couples and mutual masturbation. My fiance and I seem to be going through sort of sexual funk right now. I seem to be more open about trying new things. This has actually come across my mind. I have this fantasy about watching her masturbate to a porn as if i was not there. I dont know it is just something about watching her do it that gets me going. I have tried to tell her what I want but she seems to be closed minded to the idea. I am not sure why but if any of you have any advise about how I should talk to her about it I would be appreciative. Also, I am always looking for new kinky sexual things to do with her(you know besides the norm), so if anyone has any suggestions let me know! Let me tell you a few things we already do. I am always, I mean almost everytime, going down on her and staying til she gets off at least once if not more. Sometimes porn-then sex no masturbation during. This is very rare. Actually that seems to be it! I guess thats where my problem lies huh! Alright guys looking forward to your input. Thanks everyone.