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Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by zapper, May 19, 2007.
How many people here like to masturbate with thier SO, what do you like best about it
My SO and I engage in mutual masturbation almost every time we are together. I know exactly what I need to get off and he loves watching me slowly unravel and lose control. By the time I nearly finish I am in a completely other world and dont care about how much noise I'm making or who might over hear. My favorite part is coming back down after I finish, when I orgasm it is an out of body experience and when I start coming back my SO is wrapped around me showering my face with kisses and telling me how incredible that was and how beautiful I am.
For me it is easy to let him go down on me but to touch myself in front of him is a true test of my trust for him. I enjoy mutual masturbation because we can mutually receive pleasure while being able to kiss and talk and touch each other.
i tried it with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, and i was really skeptical, becuase i was thinking, why not just have sex or oral or something, but it was actually really fun and exciting, i strongly suggest it. it helps that i got to cum in her mouth at the end.
Yeah, it's great - especially when she slips a vibrator into her pussy. After she comes it's my turn to splash hot cum on her tits - nice!
I have never done it with my SO... my best friend who's currently my roomate... in highschool sometimes when we'd have a sleepover we'd put on porn, and jerk off at the same time. We always had a pillow blocking the view of each other though.
One time I was so curious and horny that I was sitting on the couch and he was at his computer (at the end of the couch). I was watching a tv show with girls in bathing suits and I started jerking off with a pillow blocking it... but then asked if he would mind if I put the pillow down and he said "Do what you gotta do" so I put it down and jerked right in front of him... and blew a HUGE load...
My fiance and I sometimes do that at the begining of foreplay, and almost alays before she gives me a blow job. For me, it ranks up there with 69. I love feeling her pussy get progressively wetter and then hearing and feeling her cum.
I agree wholeheartedly with LA_20 here. I love joining my lady in masturbation. For me I like being able to kiss her all over while she uses her vibe with one hand and her other hand plays with my dick. She always gets so wet and lets me finish her off with my fingers inside her; which we both enjoy. Sometimes I like this more than traditional penetration simply because there is greater control, I have not quite mastered tantra yet
DW and I masturbate together during sex while watching group sex DVD'S. She will either use her fingers or a dildo. I love to watch her cum while using a realistic dildo. I lube up and use either my hand or a vibrator. We usually cum from oral or intercourse, but sometimes I cum on her boobs and she rubs the cum all over and talks about hot cum.
do it together mabye 3 times a week and i just love seeing her playing with herself and seeing how excited she gets watching me we both cum real quick when we do this like under 2 mins
My wife and I have done this on a few occasions and I wish we did it more often. I'd be up for it almost on any occasion. As other have noted, it is soo cool to watch her do herself and then watch and listen to her when she actually cums. Whoo!
I like being able to take over some times... or finishing him... He likes tht because he can just lie back and take whats coming ^_^
I love watching my girl use her dildo I bought her, just the thought of her getting off while I get to watch at her most vulnerable point gets me goin! I jerked off one night while she was sleeping, and she woke up and saw me, instead of freaking out she took off her shirt and gave me a little show with her boobs. I love mutal masturbation, its a nice change of pace sometimes.
I like it!
I like it cause it turns me on to watch her fuck her tight little pussy with a dildo or her fingers. Plus I love when she cums because she cums so hard using a vibrator.
I'm sorry to say I don't think my wife will go for it as prudish as she is but what about getting each other off at the same time. Except for losing concentration on what you are doing I think I might be able to get her started with that and it sounds almost as nice as what you describe.
Doesn't work with us. Mr S can't keep his hands to himself. So to speak! :brow
Mutual masterbation is fun to do with friends. It might sound weird, but me and my bestfriend do it all the time! I think we might just be really tight (no pun intended!), but i enjoy our time together!! a bottle of wine helps too!
with friends?!? Not me. But with the right woman it's a bunch of fun.
yeh i agree. the thought of doin that with a mate is a bit odd
i tried it with my bf, but then he is the kind where like he wants me to follow him whatever he wants to with me, isn't that not good anymore?
My wife and I are very relaxed about masturbating around each other. She's always done it a lot and so have I and it just seemed natural that we'd do it even when the other is around. If something more happens then great (and it often does). It's also often part of our love making. Very early in our relationship we were living in an apartment with sliding glass doors that led out onto a little balcony where she liked to lie in the sun. Late one Saturday morning I got up with a crashing hangover (out with friends the night before) and wobbled off to the kitchen for water. She was lying on the balcony and because of the curtain I could only her from the waist down. She was starting to masturbate and I found it to be an incredible turn-on. I moved a chair where I could watch and also began to masturbate. Well, to make a long story short, she finished, got up and walked in in time to see me finish. Neither of us had ever even mentioned masturbation to the other before that. It's one of my favorite memories.