Mutual Masterbation

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  1. Snake21605

    Snake21605 New Member

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    Me and my g/f started "helping" each other during our sexual time. (I love 4 Hands on my Cock!!!). Anyway we just masterbated for each other the other day. She was having problems reaching orgasm. We were waiting to cum together but when she asked me to cum first for her, I agreed and she almost cam herself watching. I know we will start doing more of this...

    Does anyone have advice on ways to do it, or positions, cumming together, watching each other seperating, using videos with each other...anything?

    We really like it and I would like a head start on some new ideas....thanks!
     
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    My girlfriend pleasures herself occassionally, but for some reason she isn't a huge fan of doing it in front of me, but she really enjoys wastching me pleasure myself, lol.
     
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    One way me and my girlfriend do this is she will lay on her back, then i will sit on top of her over her stomach and you will need a vibrator if you have one... long story short i reach around and use the vibrator on her clit while she plays with her nipples and with my other hand i will masterbate.

    We love this because... She gets to watch me masterbate which she loves, i get to watch her play with her tits which i love and its a pretty good share of pleasures. I hope this helps a little bit.
     
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    We always begin foreplay with mutual masturbation while watching a porno DVD. My wife will use either a toy or fingers. I just lube up and go to it. I love to watch her cum while using a Jack Rabbit. We usually cum from intercourse or oral sex, but sometimes we cum from masturbation when I will cum on her boobs. She rubs the cum all over and talks about hot cum.
     
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    Whenever we get off for eachother...

    We sit facing eachother .. me on the couch .. my B/F in a big easy chair

    Toys included


    We did do it a few times while watching xxx vids

    But live is waaaay better!!
     
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    Thanks all for your advice so far...

    I really appreicate the help...

    Me and my g/f will have some fun with the ideas...thanks!
     
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    To all of you ^. Does penetration play a part at all? Or just wanking together, coming, then.... sleeping?

    That question sounds sarcastic, but it's genuine.
     
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    One thing we liked to do was "do" each other. It's not really masturbation since you are doing it to the other person while they do it to you. So I guess you could call it foreplay to the conclusion. Anyway it is really hot to have your partner jerking you while you stimulate her. The feedback as you both near orgasm is indescribeable.
     
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    It's called 'mutual masturbation' Igor.
     
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    I think i prefer "do" each other

    It sounds more dirty somehow....

    MM sounds a bit of a mouthful lol
     
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    I think i prefer "do" each other :laughing:

    It sounds more dirty somehow....

    MM sounds a bit of a mouthful haha
     
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    So good it needed telling twice, LOL

    I always thought that 'doing each other' was having sexual intercourse, but I'm always ready to learn from those who know better.;)
     
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    the wife will help out if she is not in the mood..Which is almost all the time, but she helps out none the less.
     
  14. igor

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    Well, yes you are right. Usually it is assumed that masturbation is what one does to oneself, but the dictionary just says it is "erotic stimulation .... exclusive of sexual intercourse". So in a way there is a gray line between mutual masturbation, and foreplay, when 2 (or more) people are involved. Of course, foreplay kind of assumes you will also have intercourse, but you could also have intercourse after masturbation...... Anyway - it's FUN!!!!!
     
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    Hopefully it's all fun, the human race wouldn't continue if it wasn't.

    Having said that, there are a few countries that need to cut back on reproduction for a while, but hey ho, that's off topic.
     
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    "the wife will help out"

    hehe....that sounds like helping you with the dishes or something...

    Elvis

    hey ho.....i love that expression...i use it quite a lot....seems to becoming somewhat extinct..
     
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    Sometimes we lay next to eachother. Then you can touch yourself or reach over and help out the woman.
     
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    Just recently introduced to this practice and it has had some very interesting results to say the least.
     
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    i videoed myself playing with my vibrators on the sofa and gavethe camcorder to Tainted to watch as i sucked him offf an i must say he seemedvery very pleased ;) lol im all for mutual masterbation its great i get to see him enjoying watching me its a great circle lol ill lay on my back fucking myself with one of my toys and he will watch and please himself, i get off on watching him enjoy himself
     
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    My wife and I do this all the time. Good times...