[Ask a Girl] Multiple orgasms

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  1. John W

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    Alright, this is a crazy one. My wife and I have been married 18 years. Recently, she has been going through her mid-life crisis. Started running, not as concerned about small things anymore and really expressing herself. She is also three sessions into electrolysis, so she is more sensitive down there. So here is the thing...she has started having multiple orgasms. I have been taking more time in foreplay, and she will start having orgasms before we even have intercourse. The other night, we had a long session and I started counting the "peaks". Over a period of an hour, it was over 100!

    She can also sit and concentrate on herself with fantasy and have an orgasm just sitting still and not touching herself. She did it in the car the other day with the kids in the back. It drove me nuts. She kind of does it to show off, and I absolutely love it!

    She thinks something is wrong with her and what I've read, it appears this isn't that uncommon. Does anyone else have this experience? I'm not complaining, but I was curious if others have gone through this.
     
  2. shashtzoh

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    Well arent you and she so lucky! Wow that is amazing that she could have 100 in such a short time. I cant say I have gone through that but congratulations and I am envious that she can come from just thinking about a fantasy. I get aroused but not all the way to orgasm. Maybe that would be dangerous with me! lol I dont think anything is wrong with her at all. As long as she is doing it with you or alone that is wonderful and how did she keep from giving it away when she was in the car with you?
     
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    Its amazing you can hide it, when being in front of the car. The idea is a turn on.
     
  4. John W

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    Our kids are still young and she wasn't very vocal. Just shook a bit and kind of grunted. It was hot as hell. I don't know what started all of this, but this is also the first time she has been able to climax while we are making love. It feels GREAT!!!
     
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    Now I have to admit that it is sexy that she can do that. If I were her friend and she told me about it I would be absolutely fascinated by it. Is she squeezing her kegels when she is fantasizing? I have read about women who can do that and orgasm. I think I would want to sit there and see it for myself. That is also great for all of you that you and she both have orgasms during lovemaking now. Good for you! How do you like that feeling as she orgasms around your penis?
     
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    It feels great! Yes, she is doing kegels after she fantasizes a bit. I've been working on kegel exercises (I guess that's still what you call it for a guy?) myself to delay my orgasm. The longer I last, the more she has. She can keep going after I'm done, so we have been using toys until I'm good to go again. I'm just hoping this will last. She is embarrassed about talking to her friends about this and I don't talk to my friends about this kind of stuff. I was really more curious if anyone else was able to do this and once you figured it out, were you able to continue?
     
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    Wow, you should both be congratulated as she has discovered something very, very precious.
    I wonder if it is more common as I have never previously heard of this ease of organism.
     
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    Wow, you have something wonderful on your hands. If I'm in your position, of having a highly orgasmic woman who can reach climax through thought/concentration, I would look into learning orgasm control. There are methods of training where simple actions and even words can trigger orgasm in women and I would think that someone who can achieve so readily would be a great candidate for this type of play. Do some searching on the web and you'll find of what I speak.
     
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    I'm pretty jealous.... I wish I had this ability.
     
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    Are you saying the "peaks" that number over 100 are actual orgasms? Or are they almost like orgasms? Or are they something else? I ask because I can have peak after peak, but I would not consider each and every one a full blown orgasm. I may have all sorts of little peaks but only three to seven serious body shuddering orgasms (not using toys) per his one. This peak after peak thing mostly happens during fucking. I've never counted, but for me it's not over 100 in one session.

    I also can think myself into an orgasm, so her ability to do this does not surprise me. Can she also have one from nipple stimulation alone? (I can.)

    I am also wondering if she is half aroused all day. This is what is primarily responsible for me being so horny all the time and my ease in climaxing. The doctor said not to worry about it back when I checked into it. As long as she is not one of those women who have uncontrollable spontaneous orgasms all day, it should be fine.

    I'm just full of questions. The running....did the start of this coincide with her new found orgasmic potential? I am into movement big time, and I am quite sure that has an influence on arousal and climaxing. Last but not least....what are her viewing habits, and did they change or increase since this all happened? OMG....I've been on an anal porn kick for a while now, which is strange for me because I don't usually get quite this fixated for so long. It pops into my head a lot, so that just makes me extra crazy horny as compared to the former crazy horny.
     
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    I guess you would call them peaks, with several full blown orgasms mixed in. With each peak, she still has contractions if you will. Unless I focus during these peaks, she pushes me out, if that makes sense. She has been focusing on it more the past few days and can almost climax on demand. I have found very little on this subject, but it sounds as though you have tapped into the same thing. As a guy and her husband, it is incredible to watch!

    She started running several months ago and this has only been the past few weeks. Everything can set her off, hugging, kissing, etc. I don't even start touching her breasts or vulva until after she has already been going for a bit.
     
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    Jealous!
     
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    My wife would always come twice easily when we first started fucking, then after a couple of years she would come while I went down on her and then again once we started fucking. Then it was getting her close during oral and she would climax while we fucked. Now she will usually get off during oral but not while we fuck. If she stops the oral before coming she will usually get on top and grind one out. I'm lucky or she's lucky because she has never had a problem orgasming while penetrated. I can say after all these years it takes me a lot longer to come while fucking.i think back to the days of my youth when I would fuck for fifteen minutes straight and come and never lose my hard on and come again after another fifteen minutes or so. Dayum, it's hard to believe that was possible now.