Moved.

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by BigGreekD, Mar 7, 2011.

  1. BigGreekD

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    I haven't been on in a while.

    I just moved to PA and my gf is back in NJ.
    I can come home and I would if gas wasn't so expensive.
    Webcams are fun and we have pictures and a video but that only goes so far.
    My hand gets tired and boring.
    I am not a cheating person and I do not want to break it off with her.
    What do I do...
     
  2. nurseharley

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    well, if you don't want to break things off with her then you have to learn to deal with the situation and not complain about it

    if you arent happy and you feel the need to keep complaining, you might just have to break up with her and find someone who is closer to you
     
  3. Mittimer

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    Why did you move?
     
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    Yeah. What Mitt said?
     
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    I am not complaining, I am asking the help from people that may have experienced this as well and maybe some suggestions on how to deal with the situation.

    I moved out here for school and she lives in NJ for school. So it's not like i have control over the location of the schools. if it was a job, I would quit my job for her any day.
     
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    Phone calls and camming are going to be your best friend for a while. Also, any vacation from school you have, try to visit. It's what me and my long distance boyfriend did.
     
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    Unless you're on scholarship, there isn't a school closer to her? Get a motorcycle, mine gets 52mpg and you can cut travel time in half. My brothers place is 1:45 by car, I've done it in :54 by bike. The lake is :45 by car, I've made it in as little as :17 by bike. Plus, chicks dig bikes.