Mouth to anal and 'ass to mouth'

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  1. SDAVIS

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    I'm curious about a cpl of things and want some input from others. My wife doesn't like the idea of me licking her ass(or playing with it for that fact). Understanding that you should not start there and move to the front due to the possibility of infections, but do most of you participate in this activityor am I just 'over the line' in my interest?
    Another topic: I have read here and elsewhere where many young couples are engaging in what is referred to as 'ATM' or ass-to-mouth. I'm just curious, what turns a woman on about that? How many people do it? Is it common today among younger cpls? I mean, if I were the woman, even I would probably draw the line there.....Any and all input welcome and appreciated.......
     
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    OK..ATM..lol..

    First off get aquainted with some porn..PM me for a few locations. Ass top mouth is when you are going back door and pull out have her turn around and she gives you a blow job...that whole arrangement depends on how well she takes care of her self. That is a gentle situation that can get ruined very quickly..

    As far as licking goes if it is a concern, get some suran wrap, and lick her from there. If she is not clean, or you go deep and she is not clean, then you can transfer some bad bacteria over to her. Not to mention, your breath can be a big turn off after that one. If you are going to do that, make sure she gets as clean as possible and then attack it... :D
     
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    I would never do ATM, And if a Woman did that to me (but She wont because I don't do anal) our love making would be over for the nite as I
    wouldn't want to kiss her, Many here will SAY That
    they do it, but I really dont believe it as I just cant see eating shit.:sf
     
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    I am in agreement. My other half just opened up (pardon the pun) to anal. And after we are done, I still go and wash off. I could never stick it in her mouth after I just got done planting her ass...not cool..
     
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    I think the (nutty) women who perform ATM are probably doing it for the guy's sake. It seems like nothing more than a power trip to me, really. Why would you enjoy seeing your partner suck something that's touched shit?

    Moving from rimming (anal tongue play) to the vagina could very well cause an infection (think of staph and e. coli bacteria, and how most people take care to wash their hands carefully after having a BM and why this is), which is why women are supposed to wipe from front to back. Same goes for the person doing the licking, who might want to avoid potential GI troubles. The easiest solution is to use a dental dam for rimming.
     
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    Bluesy said:

    What is a dental dam.:sf
     
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    Sort of like condoms. They're thin, flavored, non-lubricated latex squares for oral sex (and rimming). I have it in mind to try the berry flavored ones when the opportunity next arises ;) I've seen them in some drugstores, actually.
     
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    Good lord, SDAVIS! I haven't seen you around in ages. Nice to know you're still kickin'!

    I would NEVER engage in ATM. As far as I know, I don't recall any regular forum members here who engage in it either.
    [​IMG] I'm relatively sure Mr. Davis said just that. "Another topic: I have read here and elsewhere where many young couples are engaging in what is referred to as 'ATM' or ass-to-mouth."

    So true, and also YOU can get bacteria in your body through your exposed cock, should it me 'nekkid'.
     
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    Guys please take note:

    Escherichia coli
    E coli
    Proteus entercocci
    Klebsiella

    Are a few of the many bacteria that can happily dwell in your anus. Why? Your anus and rectum are keratinized (lined with a protective wall of dead cells, similar to hair or fingernail cells) which keep these things out of your bloodstream.
    Getting them in your mouth is a very different story! You are asking for very serious trouble! Cholera, dysentary, and 3 of the 5 types of hepatitis! Just to name a few ! There are so many ways to have good, clean, safe sex! Getting fecal material in your mouth is insanely dangerous!
     
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    I for one would NEVER ask or expect my wife to give me a blowjob without cleaning my cock after anal sex.
    I do enjoy and am sure she enjoys me licking her anus, however she does keep it clean and I do swap back and fore between pussy an ass without any dental dam or other protection.
     
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    No ATM or rimming to me. It's a major turnoff, seriously. I'm terribly glad that my fiance feels the same way.
     
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    I was moderately curious about anal play (as in anal sex), but I'm pretty sure I'd never practice anal-to-mout contact. Things are unsanitary enough with anal penetration, with or without a condom.

    It really wouldn't matter to me how much she showered and cleaned herself, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't try it.

    As far as "ass to mouth", if you could be talking about stimulation of the butt with your mouth, i suppose that's alright. I know some people practice biting and licking of the body, which includes the butt region.

    But as far as anal-to-mouth contact, that's a definate no for me
     
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    I was with someone once, she was the first person to do rimming on me (being rimmed?). In any case, she loved it, I couldn't stop her! As for me, it was the most delightful experience, I didn't want to stop her! At some point we tongue kissed, but I was way to blissful to do anything about that. Then I rimmed her and she went beserk and then we had covered anal sex.

    If I had been told that's the way our sex was going to play out, I would have been horrified, but she was one hot young sexy lady, and that's what happened. I survived, it was gorgeous, and I would share this with my SO tomorrow but I know she just couldn't get her head around it all.

    The young girl was Korean, all of 21!

    What can I say, do it and you may be lucky like me? We showered together for other reasons, and that probably helped. Try to talk your SO into doing it, but your wife probably doesn't like the idea any more than my wife. Think of my young Korean girl of several years ago and the pleasure we shared and the hot sex life she may still be having?

    I don't know, but after that I was pretty much open to anything, but I know the boundaries with Western women, so it remains a pleasant memory and maybe one day I will be lucky, but I doubt it.
     
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    I think the porn industry has created a false reality and has put ridiculous expectations on women.
     
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    I agree with you joe

    We should only do what we feel is right and not what is expected...or else what is the point?
     
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    Oh I agree Joe, You can tell that there is a pause long enough for the guy to clean off. And with a few of the other things that they have started rolling with, deep throating, Anal Orgasms, Squirting, the list goes on, but they are making it seem like this is a normal thing for all women to be into..
     
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    I think some Porno makers hate sex!

    Joe's right! So much of porn movies are phony put ons and the girl especially is NOT enoying herself! I read that some porn makers go on "fishing expeditions" and put out bizarre sex practises hoping to find some strange niche of people to sell movies to!

    For example I ran across this 1 movie where the guy would stick his dick in the girls ass for a few seconds, then into her vagina, back and forth! And with no condom! The dude is likey to infect himself and the girl!
     
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    I have noticed in a lot of porno films the woman is treated like a piece of meat....uuugghhhh.....

    Big fecking beefcake blokes pumping away at a woman as though she is just a wanking machine...

    No thanks...

    And I agree JuicyB, its bloody ridiculous to put out any type of image where the scene indicates infection could be created...

    And that aint sexy is it?
     
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    Your example is a good one, penetration going directly from butt to vagina is moronic, just asking for trouble.

    I understand why you might feel the porn industry is putting ridiculous expectations on women because many women are uncomfortable doing things that are in pornos, and that's fine. However, they've also opened alot of doors for women.

    I NEVER would have tried many of the things I now do happily, comfortably and *love* had I not seen some of them in adult films and become curious about trying them myself.

    Us women shouldn't sell ourselves short!
    When in a comfortable relationship we can be outrageously sensual and adventurous as any porn star when we just let go and enjoy sex.
    Women in pornos are obviously paid to look as though they are enjoying it, but that doesn't mean they aren't doing things worth trying and enjoying in the comfort of your own sexual relationship.
     
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    Yep. Which has, in turn, created this pathological sexual narcissism that's rampant in western society today. Too many guys look at/watch porn and draw the deluded conclusion: These women are enjoying this, ergo, my woman should be doing and enjoying this. Then they turn into whiney, self-centered, callous brats whenever their SO has enough self-respect to turn them down.

    Tangent concluded ;)
     
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