Motion of the Ocean

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    Not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean.This phrase is used a lot to make the point that you don't have to be super large to be good at sex, but no one ever follows up the statement to let men know what women like.Women, please describe what men should do to have a good motion.
     
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    Good subject...
     
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    It depends on the individual woman. Everyone is different. We could tell you what we like but the woman you're with might absolutely hate it.
     
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    "It's not the size of the young knave's blade, but his lust in the thrust by which legends are made!"

    Definitely. But also as AGF said above - every single person is different and will have a different preference. It's very risky to try to operate using generalizations - especially when it comes to "intimate" matters.
     
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    Also another version: "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean"
     
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    So nobody wants to post suggestions to help men be better lovers? We understand not everything works for everybody but we are not mind readers and do not know how a woman feels, in general, about various techniques or actions. By reading your' comments regarding what YOU like we can expand our repertoire of methods or styles and test them on our mates. It is our job to be tuned in to the feedback in order to determine if our spouse or lover enjoys the new twist.
    Love to hear you wonderful ladies thoughts.
     
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    You want some tips from a guy (me) or is this just from females? I can tell you a few if your interested.
     
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    I consider myself to be very good at sex, but as with any skill, activity or education a person never knows it all and can always learn something new. I would prefer to hear from women, but am open to any comments.
     
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    Why don't you ask the woman in question?
     
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    You should ask the woman you're wondering about but I'll tell you what I like.

    I like it rough. I'm talking, pin me down, grab my hair, bite me, claw me, take me as yours, spank me, dig your fingers into me, don't hold back, chain me so I can't get away and use floggers, candle wax and other stuff on me. That gets me off beyond anything else. There isn't a whole lot of women that are into that. A lot of women like the take charge type of man though.
     
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    I want to surprise her. Plus I didn't ask this question just for myself but for other men (and women) to benefit from as well.
     
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    Surprise her by asking what she wants... and then actually doing it.
     
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    LOL, if you surprise her with a sudden change in your sexual technique, she's going to ask some uncomfortable questions.
     
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    "Where'd you learn that?"
    "Um... internet!"
    (The Internet: Best excuse/explanation for everything since 1994!)
     
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    I can ask
    I surprise her all the time with all sorts of things, it's no big deal for me to come up with something new.
     
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    As far as personal techniques when it comes to sex that seem to work for me and my partners:

    I'm a fan of taking a lot of time and going slow. Lots of emphasis on foreplay and oral. When it comes to "the real deal" then slow, steady, and well-paced action. A gentle and calm sea - to use that metaphor. BUT if occasion calls for it and the mood strikes us both then there's never anything wrong with getting a bit "tempestuous." :D Also mixing in little bits of "pain with pleasure" things seem to get most women off - nipple tweaks, gentle nips, occasional rough squeezes, light little spanks, things of that nature. (I also get told I'm "a tease" a fair bit since I draw things out so much.)

    That's all just for me and in my experience. Hope this was the sort of reply you were looking for (as opposed to my first reply).
     
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    Tune in completely to your lover; fail safe method ;)
     
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    Damn, now that ear worm "don't rock the boat" is repeating in my head :rolleyes:
     
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    Over many, many years, I've relied on the approach, try to do it or regret it later. Tune yourself in to everything she says, does, reacts, moves, breathes, smiles, laughs... You'll know if she likes it, I can guarantee it. Not saying it works for everybody, some people aren't as observant when they're about to

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