Most girls bore me...should you just settle

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by Evil_goodguy, Sep 5, 2010.

  1. Evil_goodguy

    Evil_goodguy New Member

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    So I just went back to class recently and I've scoped out some decent looking girls in a few of my classes. After talking to them, they are nice but still boring to me. I really could care less if I end up going out with them but sex of some kind would be nice, but not worth the effort of having to play the whole seduction game with girls that bore me. I've found this to be the case with myself more and more, I'm really not interested enough to actively pursue anyone and if I am they had better give in easily or I'll just say "fuck it" and go home and jerk off. As I've gotten older I like girls who seem unique, but I don't have the patience to become interested. It might be because I'm into a specific type, and it's a type I never find. But don't want to be alone forever either, should I just settle or what?
     
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    With an outlook like that.....:eyes
    Really dude.....is it any wonder your still a virgin?:ugh
     
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    Somehow, Evil_goodguy, you've lived this long without ever having had anyone cut you down to size. Hard to believe, it's usually a rite of passage that happens in high school or college; self-important arrogant guy/girl gets publicly exposed as being only ordinary by someone they seriously underestimated. Then the truly smart ones take another look at themselves, realize they're not any more special than the others after all, and wake up with a newfound perspective that allows them more useful and satisfying social skills and ultimately a richer life.

    Either it hasn't happened to you yet, or you weren't smart enough to recognize it when it did happen. Or you're just jerking our chain for kicks. Your only choice may be to go to California and become a movie star. That should be easy for you. Then you'll get all the pussy you ever dreamed of.
     
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    Hope your hands are well calloused! If you find them so boring that you have no desire to play the game of chase, then it might also be the other way around. The chase is half the fun!
     
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    You should stop wasting your time and the girls who you potentially just want to fuck and buy yourself a whore.
    Or join a dating site, post personals.

    If all you really want is the sex, then most girls wont ever give you the time of day, ESPECIALLY if you wont even TRY to establish some type of relationship with them.
     
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    Evil_goodguy, what are your expectations that make a girl/woman "not boring"? For example, if you are expecting one to want to have sex with you after a single conversation, you are going to go without for a looooooooooooong time - unless, of course, that conversation is with a prostitute and you have sufficient funds for the encounter.

    I fear you are another victim of the unrealistic "porn attitude" that men can develop by viewing too much porn and accepting it as reality. Perhaps as well you need to check how you come across to women. From my observation in real life, many times "most of the opposite sex bore me" types are real saying "I am afraid of being, or have been, rejected by the opposite sex, so rather than work on myself I will mask that by being aloof as if they do not meet my standards".