[Ask a Guy] Months without ejaculating

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  1. sayss18

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    Guys, how long have you ever gone without ejaculating and how did it make you feel? When you finally came again how did it feel?
     
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    Probably no more than 2 weeks or so. My cock is always very sensitive and the orgasm is always stronger (and I produce more fluid) if I haven't cum for more than a few days/a week.
     
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    Physically, when I've gone through a "dry spell" and then resumed sexual activity I've never really noticed any appreciable difference in feeling. Sure, my ability to last was somewhat hindered (just like exercising is more difficult if you haven't done it for awhile), but it never took very long to get back into the swing of things.

    As to how it felt emotionally/mentally? Going without sexual stimulation is a downer for me - quite literally. If I don't masturbate/engage in intercourse for extended periods of time it plays hell with my mood. I can't give you any great explanation as to why -- I'm not a doctor, scientist, or psychologist -- it just is. After reactivating, so to speak, I do definitely feel better - more "normal" (by the loose standards I use for that term).
     
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    The longest I went was about 30 days. When I finally did it was A LOT, I would get hard and work myself up and then stop and did this again. I did this for about 1 hr and then finally let it all go. It felt REAL good after not doing it for so long. The other thing I find is this: when I do not shave my cock/balls I do not play as much as I do if I do shave. Do anyone have the same situation?
     
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    Totally agree and feel the same. My mood starts to drop around 2-3 days. By day 5 I'm an asshole. I cant imagine going 30 days.
     
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    So true! The way to a mans heart it seems it through his cock ;-)
     
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    Yep, brains buried balls deep ;)
     
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    If I had China I would be just like Blue too!
     
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    11.5 weeks. Marine boot camp. No orgasm, not even a hard on. I think they put something in our food. Sex the first time was awesome since boot camp pretty much sucked and just seeing my naked 19 yr old wife was almost enough to get me off.
     
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    I look to have a relief as regularly as possible, from myself or a partner.
    Longest was 10 weeks because of boot camp when I was one of those.
    I may hold back for 2 weeks at the most if I know I will meet someone who will spend fun times with me.
    I get distracted and maybe a little irritable if I don't have a relief, at times my balls ache in a bad way.
     
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    When going without sex for a long time I start to feel as though I am living on basic food, like you would get in prison. Masturbation relieves the physical urge to ejaculate but for me isn't fulfilling emotionally or sensually. But sex is like enjoying a delicious feast. After a long time without, having sex makes me feel like a whole man again, able to express myself sexually, able to enjoy the pleasure and company of a woman, the emotional connection of making love, the sensual pleasure of putting my penis into her giving her pleasure, enjoying her body, coming to orgasm with her and ejaculating.

    Perhaps going without makes me appreciate it more.
     
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    My balls ache but only if I've been sexually aroused, such as seeing an attractive woman or thinking about sex, and then not had relief.
     
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    I am currently elsewhere in a far away country from my young SO and customs here such that even pretty girls don't arouse much desire and no expat has rung my bell so I have gone into sexual hibernation.
    Pics of ladies and posts on here are my only source of stimulation but I don't get all that much joy from being away from the real thing and porn doesn't do it for me either. The only thing that got a response were selfies from my SO but after the 100th look even they wained in their effect. She promised more so at least looking forwards to that and then maybe a visit from her in February ;)
    It will have been the second 4 months sequential period of no sex in the last 7 years but before in the 30 odd years of marriage this was quite common.
     
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    21 days. when i came it was like a firehose was trying to put out a fire lol My mind goes ALL SEX, ALL THE TIME after about a week of no ejaculation. You can imagine what i was like at 3 weeks ;-)
     
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    Yeah, just being with a woman after weeks without orgasm gets me excited even before she's taken her clothes off, especially if she's teasing me and trying to turn me on.
     
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    For me it was about 2 months. I was stuck in bed writhing in pain due to a fractured pelvis and broken ribs among other things. I was in so much pain and/or on very powerful pain killers getting off was the last thing on my mind. Ok, it was on my mind but very low on my priority list at the time.