There are certain things that my husband and I do that involve a form of "aping", or copying the motion that your partner is doing. For instance, if my husband is fingering me, I will sometimes us my tongue in his mouth to indicate to him what I want him to do with his finger. I will flick my tongue against his to get him to flick my clit with his finger. I will probe into his mouth with my tongue, simulating thrusting that I want him to do with his fingers inside of me. Another example: I will put my finger in his mouth while I am going down on him. He knows that what he does to my finger with his mouth is what I will do to his cock with mine. As he's just barely taking my fingertip in his mouth and running his tongue around it, I'm taking the helmet of his cock into my mouth and using my tongue to trace the rim of it. If he takes my whole finger into his mouth, I take all of his manhood into mine. Another thing we do is, while I like on my back, head over the edge of the bed, sucking his cock, I will use a dildo on myself so he can see the depth and speed that I want him to fuck my mouth at. Does anyone else do similar things? If so, please tell me, I want to learn new things.