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  1. loveit247

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    Date was bald, skinny and a bit of a naf! All he could talk about was his ex! I had the worst dinner and it would just not end. I eventually made up a lame excuse about a family emergency and left.

    I went to meet a friend at a hotel bar and bumped into one of my exes (one before the one I just dumped) friends. I always liked him and we ended up having a fantastic time. I got home at 3am and he called me and we talked for ages.

    He wants to take me out and we can see what happens. Although I don't want a relationship there is nothing wrong with taking things slow. So some good came from this disaterous date!
     
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    First part sounds like a date from Hell lol

    But well happy you ended up making a bad evening into an awsome night Loveit :)

    I hope this other guy turns out to be a heck of a lot better than the dinner date did .....
    ( I cant believe some guys , out on a date with a sexy lady, and they talk about their exs all the time wtf...)
     
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    LOL! I spent most of the night in the toilet on the phone with my flat mate and friend. Try as I might I could not get out of there. He just waffeled on about nonsence.

    At least I know this other guy and enjoy his company. I am still not ready for anything more then friends to be honest.
     
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    That's really too bad. :( Mine went better tonight.

    I hope you have better luck next time. :)
     
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    Always better i think to know someone and get on wit hthem, because at least when you do on a date you know you both have things in comman and youll both have things to chat about...

    You would think though that a guy would get the hint if his date isnt there showing any real interest :p

    Loveit you are a very pretty female, and you seem to have a lot of smarts as well...i really hope you and your friend hit it of as good friends, but like you said maybe best not to get to far into things just yet, as you just had a break up...

    I am sure there are loads of guys out there that would enjoy taking you out for a meal , or anywhere your heart faniced.:)
     
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    Sorry about your date... Sometimes you have to go through the bad to get to the good. :)
     
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    Sorry about the date from hell. Rule #1 when dating: Don't talk about ex's!!! :(
     
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    Defenetly a bad topic for discussion...same as polotics and the weather can be big no nos...

    I like to ask what they love and enjoy doing, what they have done before, see if there is anything she loves that i am into as well....look for comman interests....but usualy first dates tend to turn into last dates for me, as i get to shy at first....and takes a little while to get to know the real me hehehe
     
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    :lol The weather pisses me off more then anything.
     
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    hahahah...then the weather would only be used as a secret weapon :p :p :p just teasing lol...
     
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    The bad dates always make good dates great. Plus if it wasnt for this bad date you never woulda ran into your ex.
     
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    Yeah now you owe that dull date another one Loveit :p hehehe teasing sorry im in a whacky mood atm..
     
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    I have skipped doing dinner on a first date. Lunch dates during the week have been a better option for me. I can usually tell in the first 2 minutes if I am going to be at all interested in her...so having to leave to go back to work gets me out of a lot of uncomfortable situations.

    Loveit24/7....I can't believe someone would sit in the presence of your beauty and talk about his ex. That guy is an idiot. I probably wouldn't be able to talk about anything other than how gorgeous you were. :)
     
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    Okay, damit. What's a "naf"?

    The acronym NAF can mean:
    National Abortion Federation
    National Academy Foundation - an education non profit organization.
    National Academy Foundation School - a public high school located in Baltimore, Maryland.
    The National Academies Forum - the peak body for the four learned academies in Australia.
    National Arbitration Forum
    Nato Architecture Framework an architecture framework used by NATO similar to DODAF
    Naval Air Facility
    Negation as failure - logic in which a statement that cannot be shown to be true is considered false rather than unknown.
    New America Foundation a Washington DC based think tank
    Nigerian Air Force
    Non-adjacent form in mathematics.
    North Anatolian Fault - Turkey
    Northwest Anarchist Federation
    Numbered Air Force in the United States Air Force.
    Norsk Arbeidsmandsforbund, the Norwegian Union of General Workers
    NaF is also the chemical formula for sodium fluoride.



    I take it that it's none of the above.
     
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    I think it stands for "never any fucking" as in, this is a guy who's not getting any from you. :p
     
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    I did not run into my ex. I ran into one of my exes friends.

    Naf is a really weak wet sort of bloke. A whiny little boy, not a man.
     
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    I sure hope no one calls me that if im ever on a date.....

    Let us know if this other guy turns out to be a hot date Loveit :)
     
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    This other guy has not called me so he loses out! LOL!
     
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    Obviously someone better around
    the corner....

    naf....haha I love that words...used to
    say it a lot


    :)